Online dating vs non online

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by F328, May 26, 2019.

  1. F328

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    I been using a dating app Hindge for a few months now off and on I managed to go on a few dates and get a girlfriend that eventually didn’t work out . I’m currently using the app and want to know what your experience has been like online dating .My issue is I spent a lot of time liking women’s profile pics messaging them looking for a reply and it’s not as consistent as I would like it to be. Am I being impatient ? #2 it is possible Iam comfortable online vs just filling my life up with stuff and ocosianlly trying to meet women at places like work , restaurants the store , coffee shop whatever . Basically is it worth on line dating or cut the crap and let life naturally happen ,my only worry here is I wont connect with people as easy as an online dating site can help out with
     
  2. wwtl

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    I tried online dating before online dating was a thing and even back then it sucked. Wife material simply isn't online.
     
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  3. L'empereur

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    Dating online is not dating. Is picking casual sex from a catalogue.
     
  4. Freedom_from_PMO

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    Online dating would be disappointing unleds you are good looking and looking for hook ups/ons. It might be harder to find ltr online than irl.
     
  5. SpoonDog

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    Keep going with the online dating so you maximise your chances of finding someone.

    Women are the same breed whether you meet them online or offline and there’s decent people online, it just takes a bit of effort to find them.
     
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  6. F328

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    Thanks for the encouragement it’s going ok I’m by nature impatient and give up on stuff to easily I’ll try to practice some endurance with this really appreaciate the feed back how is your NoFap journey coming along ?
     
  7. SpoonDog

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    Yes endurance is key with online dating - it can take months and many failed dates before you meet someone worthwhile. My NoFap journey is going really well thanks, I have a new girlfriend who I met online, so I don't give any thought to porn.
     
  8. F328

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    Awesome. Keep it up good on you
     
  9. Rehab101

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    I'm lucky I guess. Engaged with my woman I met online. Met her on OkCupid 5 yrs ago. That was my one and only attempt also though.
     
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  10. F328

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    How long did you date online till your wife ?
     
  11. need4realchg

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    I met my wife by her sister online.
    Married 13 years now.

    She wasn’t online because hot girls usually are not there. But her “fair” sister was. True story.
     
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  12. Rehab101

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    We dated 5 yrs. Engaged currently.

    Stay picky when u r looking online though. I was.
     
  13. F328

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    That’s what I’m noticing is not to be shallow but is it even worth being online vs just working on myself and let life happen since most attractive girls are not online . I’m thinking just work on myself soon I’ll build some better dating skills even tho I’m not really into dating right now I’m looking to transform from addict to fitter healthier me I have goals that are pushing my social life out the window but the addict in me craves porn sex and femal attention I’m wrestling with the stuff and online dating give me hope yet it’s a quick fix to a bigger problem of I need to transform myself
     
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    That’s what I’m noticing is not to be shallow but is it even worth being online vs just working on myself and let life happen since most attractive girls are not online . I’m thinking just work on myself soon I’ll build some better dating skills even tho I’m not really into dating right now I’m looking to transform from addict to fitter healthier me I have goals that are pushing my social life out the window but the addict in me craves porn sex and femal attention I’m wrestling with the stuff and online dating give me hope yet it’s a quick fix to a bigger problem of I need to transform myself
     
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    That’s what I’m noticing is not to be shallow but is it even worth being online vs just working on myself and let life happen since most attractive girls are not online . I’m thinking just work on myself soon I’ll build some better dating skills even tho I’m not really into dating right now I’m looking to transform from addict to fitter healthier me I have goals that are pushing my social life out the window but the addict in me craves porn sex and femal attention I’m wrestling with the stuff and online dating give me hope yet it’s a quick fix to a bigger problem of I need to transform myself
     
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