One of the most best thread, if you are young read it. (Its not written by me) CREDITS to its writer

Thx

 

That's really good advice thank you.

And maybe you're older than most here but that doesn't mean you can't start NoFap today

 

Hahaha it says "I'm 58 years old" in the first post.

Now I'm confused

 

Quite inspiring, bro.
I would like to translate it into Chinese for Chinese readers. Could you give me the address where the post come from?

 

Thank you

 

Thanks

 

Thank you very much Storm Bringer, I really feel inspiration by reading your post.
P is a drug, we must be strong guys.

 

Thanks for sharing..in a way I feel like the writer cause Im 37,Im a shell of the guy I used to be and the guy I could have been.Im glad to see guys in their early 20s here smart enough to learn from other people mistakes.
We(the oldies) dont want to see you guys here with 40 years impotent isolated and depressed.
Its just the way he says,days go by,years go by just waiting for that moment when you are alone and fap away your problems.
Now I see Im a drug addict. and you know what? Its sad cause I had 2 bi events that afected my life negatively in my erly 20s.One was the girl I was crazy for was not interested in me and ive never got over it.And I also had a very deep family trauma that I cant even speak on that I dindnt recover etiher.
I refused recieving mental health I told myself as positive as I always have been that I was able to move on with my life and be happy.
I also told myself that I wasnt going to cope with this with drugs.So I dont even drink coffe,smoke or drink. For years I thought I was ok,not taking drugs and doing fine..but the truth is I was drugging myself everynight and every chance I had during the day.
My life went in decline,I left college,for a while I worked on different things,dated several girls and even lived by myself but I lacked the drive.The problems were not dissapearing and now I had a new problem.The insecurities,the PIED,she social anxiety,isolation,the lack of drive...So I came back to my parents and fell so into my adiction,no work,no girlfriend,cut all my friends,one day after another doin nothing worth to remember for 10 years.my addiction is actually18 years but it was gradually goig downfall.Just like my Ed at first it was a few ocasions to not be able to keep it up 10 seconds so the sam pattern was my life.
Now Im ina position where everybody has done something out of their life,either profesionally or relationships and Im stuck in the same situation without job or goals materializing.Living a lie cause I pretend im straight when in reality I crave P ue to porn.Im ashamed of myself impotent and bankrupt. In the last few years PMO was not enough so I gave in into the homo urges to bring some excitement to my boring sex relationship lifefallin deeper int he hole of shame. I also started to drink because some nights PMO wasnt enough to mask all my problems.
Im liking the way Im feeling after 22 days of NoFap I can see trazes of my oldself coming back.That oldself that enjoyed party days in a row,meet girls,travel..in other word my old self who truly enjoyed life instead of let it pass. I really hope this PMO period of my life becomes just that a small period of my life.
I feel like Ive been sleeping for 18 years on PMO. instead of grabbing the phone and calling the girl I loved I was insecure fapping away my fear of her rejection to porn.Instead of finding a job I stayed home cause my hand was enough to make me happy i didnt need to buy anything.I also didnt need children cause I hd my hand and ED.i didnt buy clothes cause I wasnt going anywhere,when I bought it it ended in the closet without even wear it once.In almost 20 years I have not moved forward. Ive been confortable in my bubble of addiction letting years go by fightin my demons with porn and alcohol.I cant recall any christmas any birthday.They were all the same,I wasnt living the present time.
but to my entourage Im ok,like the poster says this adiction alows you to pretend to be ok,as long as you keep you higiene nobody finds out. Only you know deep inside all the great potential you have and that you are currently the worst version of yourself.People just asume you are the loser they see.They think you were born this way. that you enjoy being lonely or single that you are not interested in a better job.That you dont want children.. That you just dont like to party or socialize.That you are naturally shy

 

It is not too late hijodelaluna18, if you are there, it is because you want to fix it ! And this is the good way.

 

Thanks you really. It motivates a Lot. Each day is important.
More you resist the porn, your brain is more rewired and stronger the next day to fight more. Just like a muscle.