I have been feeling so torn apart this last week. My partner of a year is making huge steps to tackling his recovery and we are on the road of deciding whether we stay together and not have sex for 3 months while he attempts hard mode, or we break up and he handles this on his own. I'm curious what people in this forum have experienced. I am still in love with him and I don't want to break up, but I love him so much I want what is best for him/us. I brought us to this crossroads and he's going to think about it over the next couple of days about which option feels best to him. I love him but I want to be realistic about what works for rebooting and recovery. IF we do decide to stay together for at least 3 more months no sex, what are some healthy boundaries? (no making out but is cuddling is ok?, should I wear a sports bra and a full pajama set when we go to bed together?? for people that have attempted this, what are other ways to show affection outside of physical touch?) IF we break up, how do I stay sane from missing him so much and how do I show my support even though we can't see each other? I don't want to lose him, he's become such an important person in my life.