Okay i have to put the retention on hold...

In my opinion it is just a normal habit. It was not with an escort girl... She is your wife and somehow she has a right to your body.

I am also during my recovery, but do not consider normal love making with my wife as a relapse.

Technically you would be able to consider it as a relapse if you did go the monk mode (no PMO).

Stay strong and be an alpha male for your wife. She is the love of your life and we should all enjoy our lives!

 

That's actually a good thing. That's what I'm dreaming about. I'm rebooting from P and M. I don't count O with my wife. Of course my sex with her is sporadic. You just need to watch out for chaser effect if it dries up.

 

This forum confuses me more and more by the day. What are you talking about? You're supposed to fuck your wife.

 

Isn't the goal of this site to help us men to have healthy erections and the ability to ejaculate with our partners? Why on earth would you want to hold out on your own wife? If this site is about denying ourselves the pleasure of a full sexual experience with our wives (including guilt and shame free orgasm) then I'm out of here.

 

Having sex with your wife and stopping PMO is the goal. Don't deny yourself from her for any reason.

 

Your tracker counts the days without porn and masturbation, so no need to reset. Some trackers also include orgasm for hard mode. In that case you would either reset or take orgasm off the tracker.
I am also married. I have also been having a sexless marriage due to my wife's lack of interest. I'm doing hard mode now which is interesting, but I'll gladly give it up if we start getting it on again.

 

I say "bravo" to you Willie. Keep up the good work. I understand that if you wish to retain and to see what it does for you being a consideration.....but, I'd personally take the path you chose as well.

 

As a new member here I think this is one of the more successful stories I have read.
. Get in there mate.
Plus a uplifting store for us guys and gals who want to get to that point with there recovery .

 

Having sex with your wife is fine. Be prepared for the chaser effect. Good job

 

That's my hope. That the new person I'm becoming will help rekindle the intimacy.

 

https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/chaser-effect-what-and-why.5219/

 

A few days after O. Your body is expecting another. Strong urg for PMO, if your wife isn't interested.

 

Having sex with your wife is natural. Why? It’s the only way to make babies so therefore NATURE deems having sex with your wife being normal. Enjoy sex. Masturbation destroys your penis. Sex doesn’t

 

It all depends on your goals. If your doing hard mode then I would reset & I have heard for pmo addicts we should not ejaculate for
at least 3 months. Again it’s all personal opinion.