Not feeling Aroused ? Even with amazing Girls

The lack of confidence in my opinion does not mean that you would not get aroused if you had her naked with her legs open in front of you. Sometimes being abstinent for a long time (usually longer than 3 weeks) can make you super sexually charged. This has happened to me before. And when I feel like that I am usually more sexually aggressive. I don't mean sexually harassing girls, but simply acting with more boldness and less fear because this sexual energy helps to overbalance the instinctive intimidation that you might feel towards a girl, however don't think about it like some magical thing that is going to completely eradicate all your fears, it just help a bit. You still need to work on your confidence separately.

 

I agree with Uruvug. Nofap is a good start for your story, but its not the end. In the end you you may want to masturbate 2 times a week and be able to naturally walk towards girls and have fun. I mean you are aware of what you want to do and what does not feel good for you

There are really great coaches outside there, who are willing to help you. Coaches like Orlando Owen, Steve Piccus, Hypnotica ( Eric von Sydow), Johnny Soporno can really help you not only with success with girls, but also how to live a meaningful life and be happy.

I really really warn you about PickUp Coaches! Do never ever go to a Pick Up artist! Pick Up is bullshit and does not work! They steal your money and leave you feeling like shit. But far more important: They leave all the girls empty and destroyed! Its disgusting.

You can do the first step and just do smalltalk to every customer. Just a simply "Hey how you doin"? To everyone, not only the beautiful ones.

 

Ive had your problem mate. Virgin until 31, never in a relationship. But i read up on how to attract girls and how to fuck them properly and make the feel amazing.
Pretty Girls are like a dangerous animal. Show signs of weakness and they will most likely eat you alive. Show confidence, dominance and assertiveness and they may lie to your toes.

Ive learned my knowledge about woman before starting to hunt. Everyone makes mistakes and you go out hunting again.
But without the hunt you will never have something to eat(out). Literally.