Nonsense...

Hi PlasticBoy,
First of all, you are not a pig. If you are here, that's because you have values and you want to change. That's a very good point and this is crucial for the future. Then, stop putting sentimental relationships with girls in the center of your life. Girls are humans like guys. Finding a girlfriend among them will come after. This is not crucial for your life now. You have to focus on your person and start changing things. The first thing you must do is to put away your videogames and start to go to gym. Workout is very important. You will start to love yourself and the image of yourself that you show to other people. Workout will free endorphin which is the hormone of happiness. Go running outside in a park (during the spring and the summer if you live in a snowy place), it is a little bit hard at the beginning but it is soooo fulfilling. You will start to love admiring the nature while running and your cardiovascular strength will grow fastly. Then start reading, you will realized how life is diversified. You will learn surprising things and you will feel more cultivated which will make more proud of yourself. Go to the library and take a little book (any subject) that seems interesting for you and start by it. Watch good and inspiring movies, it will help you to keep working hard. Then, try to meet new people, at the gym at the school, at events whatever. the most important thing is trying to leave your comfort zone, this is the way that will change you! And of course, never fap, this thing will destroy you.
Good luck!
Don't hesitate to contact me, i am available!
Sorry for my english (I am francophone!)

 

You don't Need a woman to feel good about yourself. Before you feel happy alone, a woman won't Show up and if she does you're likely to push her away.

 

I know your pain. I'm 26 and I've never known the affection of a woman. Like you, I can't blame them. Any girl who would consider dating me would technically have to be considered mentally ill. But it still hurts. I can't and don't talk to girls because I have nothing to offer them as well.
And like you, the only reason why I'm still around is my mom.

 

Man, you need some confidence pills! If you want to get with a woman, there's absolutely nothing stopping you except YOU!

My girlfriends and I are fairly open-minded. We give shy guys a chance when we're in the club (well, before I met my BF). But it's a two-way street. You have to put effort into looking good, creating a career, and overall taking risks and initiative to engage people of all sexes. You have a good "product". Now you need a "marketing team" to distribute that quality good to a wider demographic. It isn't easy. But the rewards - such as increased confidence, greater respect from friends and family, and overall a better standard of living - speak for themselves. Good luck!

 

I'm 26 and have also never kissed a girl or been told that I'm loved other than my mother. I lost my virginity to prostitutes who I don't even know there name. A total of 5 different prostitutes. You're not alone in this but it has to be up to you to make the change.

 

Girls are not everything in this world. If you can't get a girl to respect your feelings then maybe you should stop thinking about them and pay your attention to the one whom you love, your mom, for whom you are alive for.

 

"Do you feel like you're entitled to love?" was advice I got that hit me like a hammer. If I'm not making opportunities in my life for love, I can't expect it to fall in my lap. Depression is a hindrance, yes, but it's also a time to look within and ask yourself the hard questions. If you're thinking about suicide, definitely see someone about that. Have you thought about medication? **it can make you feel worse at first, takes a good several months to adjust and you might have to try different combos- very personal decision and takes commitment to get one mood meds.** Hoping you have a support system to go through that with. As long as you are trying, your teammates will probably cheer you on. And it is true that you become more lovable when you learn how to love yourself- not to say that depressed people aren't worthy of love, they very much are. (And for the record love is not the province of the hot or fit- average looking/sized people pair off all the time.)

And another thing don't think of romance in terms of people "needing" each other to complete them or be a cure for happiness like it's an employment opening. Stay with me. Girl is not slot filler for feelings of emptiness, though they can be, that's not the foundation for meaningful lasting relationship- it's a recipe for codependence. You'll attract a fixer, or someone to distract from yourself by fixing- that's what need is. It looks great on the surface that everyone is paired off, but you don't see the messed up behind the scenes drama, cheating, boredom etc.

Not recommending to project "I don't need anyone" or to force yourself to feel that way if it's not genuine.

When you are truly ready for a relationship, feeling better and whole and truly open to a connection, you'll meet a person that you can't imagine not having in your life because of who they are, and because making one another happy is just what you do And this can happen sooner or later for everyone. There's no age or time of life where you are supposed to have found love.