nofap, "virginity problem" and finding peace

Hey guys! Just wanted to tell you my story.
I had some serious relationship about a five years ago (well you can say it's not that serious, because I was 18 years old for a moment). I will spare you from details, what i want to say is that the relationship crushed like a plane on fire (which was quite expectable because of my age), so I was alone again, had some serious depression and psychological issues. I decided to go to brothel just to "relax" (I was a virgin) and as you can forsee because of anxiety nothing happened, I couldn't do a thing. I tried the same thing for other two times and guess what? Nothing happened again, I just couldn't relax.
So I remain virgin and celibate untill now, haven't had any relationship with anyone, not even tried to be honest (stress after previous girlfriend really gave me some kind of phobias and anxiety) and I'm not even mentioning my huge social problems i was facing because of self-isolation.
But since I realised the problem of porn addiction and masturbation generally, I really have begun to feel some kind of peace, even sexual problems I am experiencing are losing their power over me.
The question is: Have you guys ever experienced something like that after beginning of nofap journey? Have you faced problems like I had and how the new style of life helped you in finding peace, confidence, salvation from "virginity problem" or even new relationtip?

 

Thanks for sharing experience. Godd luck and a safe journey to peace!

 

Hi Cymbaline! I had a similar experience, i have problems in relations too.
I suffered so much for loneliness, anxiety and rage all the time, expecially after my relationship ended.
But thanks to consciousness of porn and masturbation problem i started the NoFap journey and now i'm feeling better everyday.
The sexual and sentimental problem are disappearing during the time, this gives to me a kind of peace that allows me to focus on myself and my happiness!

Get on, man! Good luck for your journey!

 

Thanks for the kind wors and for sharing your experience!

 

why are you so much thinking about love and sex? You're 23. You should be thinking about fitness, making MONEY and friends Romance shouldn't matter to you at all. Once you built a good life for yourself, chasing women is much easier anyways.