NoFap, NoVideoGames and Virgin

Hello mate, I think you are thinking too much on losing your virginity. When it happen, it happens. Keep up with doing NoFap and you will see a lot of progress during the reboot. Don't break your record.

 

Depends how you want to lose your virginity. If it matters that it has to be with a girlfriend then do it. But if you are tired of waiting for a girlfriend you can try to have casual sex with someone you meet on a bar or by paying for it. There is nothing wrong by consuming prostitution.

 

Hey, I agree with jorg78. Finding a girl who you can fall in love with should be your first priority right now, BEFORE thinking about sex. Now I don’t know this from experience, so this is all just my belief when I say that when you fall in love with the right person, you won’t have to worry about overcoming shyness or losing your virginity. Don’t give weight to your desires. There’s a lot more to a relationship than just sex, remember that.

 

I wouldn’t worry about it too much, just wait until you feel the time is right

 

keep on the streak at least until you loose your virginity.

 

I'm 23 too, and I'm in the exact same situation as you lol. (It's weird how many of us on this forum have the exact same problems).

I think you should hold on to NoFap until you meet a girl you like and then you can do it with her. (it's what I''m trying to do at least lol).

Its NoFap not permanent celibacy

 

I also fight to stop watching porn and I don't watch for 1 year now. It is worth it!

 

It's a good thi g u stopped playing video games. It'll help u learn what beimg social is all about

 

Hi, I'm going on 26 and I'm still a virgin. It is tough because I too have buried myself in video games and only have 1 really good friend. I think you should break your no PMO record. I hope to beat mine! I would say it depends on your thought process on when and how you want to lose your virginity. If you want to lose it to someone special and who you care about or just casually someplace. Some relationships may take a while to blossom as they do not happen instantaneously.

 

I think you should learn to enjoy your own company, and start to include others into it. It doesn't sound like you need a romantic relationship, it sounds like you need to get out of the house and spend time with friends. You need to look into groups and activities PURELY to enjoy yourself, and meet people through your enjoyment. Friendships develop best that way, and from friendships relationships develop. Trying to focus on romantic relationships is a backwards method and you are going to focus too hard on that without developing your own structure for enjoying life, as yourself, by yourself. Also, women are people, and they want friends too.

I would recommend start slow, look into one hobby or interest, one group, that piques your interest, go to a meeting or two. If you don't like it, you still have a new experience, a real, physical experience.

 

Unless you went to the club to dance, the only purpose is to drink and meet women. I'd recommend that's not really learning to love spending time with yourself, or developing new hobbies with friends.

 

Hey I will join you on novideogames I have been playing Age of Mythology way too much.

 

As someone who lost their virginity to someone I didn't really like as a friend, and with a lot of other baggage attached, I'm going to vote in favour of keeping your streak. Give yourself an awesome streak, work on yourself and your weak points, and, if your read people's success stories, all sorts of awesome things can happen. It's right to be sceptical, but you owe yourself the chance to at least explore how long you can go.

You've got this.

 

try a date first, if everything goes fine, why not? haha