NoFap 90 days

Discussion in 'Ages 20-24' started by Aurélien, Jan 11, 2017.

  1. Aurélien

    Aurélien Fapstronaut

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    Hi, first of all sorry for my bad english speaking..
    I used to fap on porn a lot when I was 15-18 years old, I had my first girl friend during that time, and I did my first time with her, couldn't get an orgasm.. Tried some time again, and still no orgasm. We broke up few months after.
    After that I reached 18 year old, I started smoking, partying a lot, I never had real problem to met a girl, kiss her, and get her in my bed. But each time the same problem appear, no erection or no orgasm. And now, I am 20 years old and I never had an orgasm with a woman.. I stopped smoking during last 3 months, my study are fine, I'm doing work out for more than one year now, playing guitar.
    All seem fine, but I feel empty inside me, what would be the meaning of all of that if I can't have a proper sex with a girl ?
    So now I decided to go for that nofap journey, to quit my last demon, but a huge one, I didn't really watch hard porn, but lot of classic erotic porn, and for last 6 months, I spent some money on online webcam.
    Online webcam seems to be an harder addiction to me, I already tried to quit all of that, porn was simple, but some time it appears I go for fap on a camgirl, then I'm thinking like "am I really paying a girl to do that ??", then mainly because I'm excited, I go watch a porn, but I do it fast, and then I feel so bad inside me...

    Sorry for my bad bad english I hope you still understand me!
    I will write each morning for 90 days, practicing more meditation, working more, and do everything well, it will also be a good way to improve my english haha!
     
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  2. Aurélien

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    So here my second day, it seems ok, did my workout last day, read a bit also, and I was on the phone with a friend before going to bed yesterday, so no problem at all, that was ok! :)
     
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  3. Retentionman

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    Awesome, congratulations. Stay strong.
     
  4. Aurélien

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    Thank you for your reply bro !
    So we are going for my third day, and I'm wondering what's going to be harder to me, nofap for 90 days or just keep this journal for 90 days haha.
    Main problem I'll face is that I'm studying in IT and when I work alone the week end, I'm realllyyyyy tempted to watch those cam girl..
    I'll work less may be and go outside, this project of NoFap and no porn is my main goal actualy.
    I said NoFap for 90 days hm but I think this is more NoFap for 90 days because I want to quit porn and everything else around that, then I guess no problem for that
     
  5. Retentionman

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    As long as you think that no pmo is your main goal there will be no problem. I want to get rid of all of that stuff for life. Just focus about, not letting any bad though stay on your mind, the more time you think about it it becomes stronger and the temptation is bigger. For example, when I think about something sexual, I instantly become aware of my thought and let it pass, like a cloud passing in front of you, without reacting to it. Before you even start to get horny, it's possible. One day at a time buddy, after those 90 days itt will be much easier for us to get rid of that problem. Let's do it!
     
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  6. Aurélien

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    oh yes, that cloud tip seems to work well on me. Thank man!
    I should have post this morning but I didn't haha, still no problem, achieve my 4th day so, did all the stuff I had to do :p
    I'am asking myself some questions about flatline, such as if that occur to everyone, how long it takes, is having sex with girls still ok ?
    My main goal with that, is ok, stop porn shit, but get my fucking dick on with girls lol
     
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  7. Retentionman

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    Awesome, very happy for you. And I guess it's fine to have sex as long as you don't do it compulsively?
     
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  8. Aurélien

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    I don't really know ... I think I'll still go for that 90 days journey, it will develop my will.
    You are on 24 days so ? What are your feeling bro right now ?
     
  9. Aurélien

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    ok so now we are, wednesday is going to be the first week of this journey, I don't feel any changement and that's cool like that ! All is okay now so, all is going to append from the 20th day I'm sure :)
     
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  10. Aurélien

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    Tomorrow is going to be the first week succeed !:) For now I feel it easy, but without workout it would have been sooo hard. I think the key is on that, just go for an hard workout after you finished school or idk, and you'll really don't want to pmo, at 23h I'm tired and then I go to sleep, and again... Don't go to sleep too late too. Tonight I'll sleep with a friend (had some bad sexual experience with her lol, like the can't go hard) I'll tell her about this project.
     
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  11. sumersingh

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    best of luck brother you can do it
     
  12. Aurélien

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    I said earlier, I stopped smoking, thats not really true, I took an e-cig, so no real cigarette, but still nicotine inside (3mg actually), I know that when I stop completly nicotine, my libido exploses, should I wait the end of the reboot to stop e-cig ?
     
  13. sumersingh

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    listen brother you want to be free from everything which rouins your life if cigrate you think is good for you then dont leave otherwise dont keep it
     
  14. Aurélien

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    idk why but stop nicotine seems harder x1000 than porn haha, I'll do that during that flatline, I have such horrible boost of energy when my body is lacking of nicotine, that'll balance my inner energy
     
  15. sumersingh

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    hahahaha brother do one thing at a time first leave this then apply same on that
     
  16. Aurélien

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    You are right, it'll be hard enought thought haha
     
  17. sumersingh

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    brother can you help me my 8th day is going on i dont have friend here can we help both of us and lets face this addiction and beat it i know you are busy but u r very punctual and funny i need some friend here so that i come daily to ask you whats going on brother
     
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  18. ZenPhysics

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    Hi Aurélien,

    Just read your journal.
    I started my challenge just a day before you started yours, I'm 21 and I study at university too. I know we're in different circumstances and all that, but I hope we can make it together. Keep it up bro :)
     
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  19. sumersingh

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    i also want to make it bro
     
  20. ZenPhysics

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    That's awesome man, let's do this together! We'll keep in touch
     

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