I don’t know what to do. My sex life with my husband has decreased significately. He blames the lack of passion on stress. When we make love I feel he is doing it for me. Sex is very robotic. We never kiss. He’s never given me oral. In my heart I think either this man is a PA or he is not in love with me. What are the signs that he is a PA? I feel so ashamed of myself. I’m desperate for his affection and I just don’t get it.