No more Mr. Fap guy.

Hi I'm new to this. I recently came to the conclusion I may have a problem with masturbation. I have no problem having sex women but the way my schedule at work is set up its hard to really have time to continue talking to a girl until she ready to go all the way. So like any guy I masturbate to keep my sexual prowl down. I recently came across a error in that plan when I masturbated before a girl came over because she text me we aren't having sex. So for safe measures I grabbed some jergins and lathered my Jimbo up and went to town however when she came after dinner and some drinks she was ready to get busy. I on the other hand was not. Couldn't get my solider to stand at a attention to save my life. He was down for the count. Needless to say it was very embarrassing. I decide from that night on I was gonna change my masturbation life. I wanna be done with it but I made it such a big part of my life. Before bed, sometimes in the morning before dates so I wouldn't think sex. I really wanna shake the urge to self pleasure. I want my dick to go back standing at attention just from kissing and Virgin foreplay. Please help me.

Oh by the way I just turned 25 so I know it's not erectil dysfunction.

 

I wish it were that easy my friend I work on a boat, a tug boat to be exact (no pun intended) all guy crew gone for weeks at a time when I get back on land. I'm ready to empty all the extra testosterone but I don't always have a lady lined up. I can't bring myself to pay for Sex.(Nothing against it tho) I just can't turn the urge off sometimes then you factor in boredom. It's like fappin grounds for a fappholic like myself. Smh