No M or P aside from normal relations with GF cured DE and ED - possible trigger warning

Hi everybody, I found this forum about 6 months ago, and searched for success stories of curing DE while in a relationship. I didn't find anything exactly like my situation, but I was inspired by other successes.

first, it was a gradual process to actually reach my goals. I had suffered from delayed ejaculation my whole sexual life ( probably due to death grip), and recently from ED also. I quit porn first, and wow! what a difference it has made in my life. I highly recommend that you all quit for good it has changed my social skills completely especially with women.

Now, I have been dating the same girl for 8 months now and at first I was struggling with ED, but that passed (due to not watching porn, and limiting masturbating), but until last week I was unable to ejaculate without finishing myself off. It made sex more of a chore than fun. finally, giving up masturbating completely, and not finishing myself off after sex was the solution to my problems. Now I consider my performance ideal! much more sexual drive, and sex is much more exciting being able to finish naturally.

I wish I had done this years ago! oh well, the best time to make a change is the present.
for those that didn't read the whole post-
Summary: zero porn, and zero masturbation leads to normal sex life. I realize that not all of you are in a relationship or frequently get laid, which makes this hard because it is really difficult to do god mode. All I can say is what worked for me. I strongly encourage you all to give up porn and masturbation.

 

mb1989, I have to say that keeping something like that a secret in a relationship must put quite a strain on things, especially if she blames herself for your DE. I couldn't have succeeded without the support of my GF, who once she knew what was going on was understanding and eager to help me along my journey. In my experience, girls assume that all guys watch porn regularly, so she will not be shocked that you do too.