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No erection during relapse...

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Deleted Account, Jun 10, 2018.

  1. I’m disappointed to say that I have relapsed. It was a moment of weakness and I’m horribly ashamed of myself.

    What bothered me the most though...I didn’t get a erection during this relapse. I did ejaculate, rather quickly...my guy was soooo sensitive it didn’t take long. But the no erection really bothers me. I had erections with porn all the time before I stared nofap. So what the hell happened here!?!? It didn’t move at all before I touched it and not much at all after I did.

    Any info or opinions are appreciated.
     
  2. How long was your streak?
    After my longer streaks I experienced the same. Don't worry, erections come usually back after a few days if you'd continue to masturbate. But I think you'll immediately start a new streak, don't you?
     
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  3. Well this one was 14 and the one right before this one was 21. Before that I forget. I’m not sure if I’m still making progress with all the short 1-3 week streaks or not.

    Either way it has now done scared the crap out of me!
     
  4. Mister Fire

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    What happened is that by jacking off to porn you're giving an INSANE dose of dopamine to your brain (linked to sexual arousal) and it desensitizes you from what you once found arousing 'cause you get use to that dose ! That's how addiction works: you get desentitized to a certain dopamine dose, so you need MORE dopamine ! That's why porn addicts start to jack off to all kind of crazy shits like fetishes and all that stuff, normal sex doesn't excite them anymore ! And that's also why PMO addicts can't enjoy real sex with a real girl and get a boner, they're stuck in their heads with all their dirty fantasies even if there's a real naked girl right in front of them ! PMO will fuck up your sex life, too bad huh ? Well, there's a solution for that problem, it's called NoFap ! Commit to it and fix your life !
     
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  5. Mister Fire

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    Of course he will, why the fuck would he continue to fuck up his life with PMO ?
     
  6. I was watching porn though...never in my life have I watched porn and not gotten a erection. Why would this happen after I’ve been on nofap since February? I’m terrified.
     
  7. Mister Fire

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    Read my first post.
     
  8. freshstart111

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    It could be that deep down you really didn't want to relapse but you had already set the train in motion with regards to having an orgasm just by viewing some porn in the first place. Your brain may have been looking for its dopamine fix while you were doing your best not to get turned on by the porn. Just a theory but in all honesty i wouldn't over think it as that might ultimately lead to more relapses. Your are doing great, Do as you did last time and get straight back to conquering this addiction!
     
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  9. Thanks for your reply! Yeah I wasn’t sure if I was in a flatline or what because I thought you weren’t supposed to get urges during that time. It freaked me out so I was trying my hardest to get a erection but it just wasn’t happening. Hopefully you are right and it’s just my brain screwing around with me.
     
  10. Yes, Tiger uppercut, you don´t need an erection right now, but if you once need it again, you will have it. Just keep to your reboot now...
     
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