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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Cody87, Dec 13, 2013.

  1. Cody87

    Cody87 Fapstronaut

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    SO excited to be here, I have been putting this decision off now for too long! I guess all I needed was this website as the little nudge to finally go through with it. Its really nice to know there are others out there that have/had this problem and I can share my experiences with them and theirs with me. I am looking for an accountability partner if someone would be so kind. my goal is complete abstinence from PMO and hopefully leading to a normal sex life with a wife someday.
     
  2. Mark

    Mark Distinguished Fapstronaut

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    Hello and welcome! This might sound a bit trite but this is a copied and pasted message because I think its important to greet people but don't have to time to type out the same message every time. So rather than just ignore people I figured it would be good to do this?

    Just to get you started can I just make the following suggestions (and they are only suggestions)?

    1. Head over to the forums at the top of the main page. Don't be shy. Wade in and see what grabs your interest. Start a thread. Help others and be helped just by getting involved. Plus its the PERFECT antidote to fapping!

    2. Check out the website yourbrainonporn if you haven't already and make use of the brilliant resources there.

    3. Consider doing a 90 day reboot and get yourself a tracker (see bottom of this post)

    4. Lighten up! Humour really is the best medicine and can really help you see things from a new and and helpful perspective. (And you need that more than anything right now. Right?)

    5. Consider reading the book 'Changing for Good' by James O Prochaska. Is a particularly helpful tool for those who want to make positive and LASTING change in their life. Several of us have found this to be an indispensable tool.

    7. Don't get into arguments (especially over the usual politics/religion stuff) We are all human here and we are in this together regardless of our chosen 'path' (even if you believe truth is a 'pathless' land!)

    6. Thank the founder of this site Alexander. It really is making the world a better place (I truly believe that!) And credit where its due I say!!

    7. Greet and encourage newcomers...;-)

    All the very best to you :)
     

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