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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Shaparedinem, Feb 24, 2017.

  1. Feb 24, 2017 #1
    Shaparedinem

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    Hello everyone.

    I am currently engaged to a lovely woman. She definitely wants kids when we marry. But my addiction to porn and masturbation means I rarely ejaculate during sex with her. She doesn't really know yet as she lives in another country most times.

    I have decided to fight this addiction and go hard mode for 90 days. I would like to know if anyone overcame DE by avoiding PMO. I get hard very easily when I am with her and we have multiple sessions whenever she is around. I just can't seem to ejaculate. There are some times when it feels I am about to, but then nothing comes. Would really like to have kids with her. But that might be tough if the only time I can ejaculate is when I am masturbating to porn.

    Would appreciate any advice. Thanks.
     
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  2. Feb 24, 2017 #2
    D . J .

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    Welcome to NoFap where you are amongst friends who are here to encourage you and not judge you.

    What are your current strategies for combating the enemy called PMO?
     
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  3. Feb 24, 2017 #3
    i_wanna_get_better1

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    I had DE, PE, and PIED when I started. After cutting out P and M my symptoms started going away. It took about a month to see improvement. My wife was also aware of my reboot, so she understood when there were performance issues in the beginning.
     
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  4. Feb 24, 2017 #4
    Shaparedinem

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    I am going to avoid watching all forms of porn for now.

    I often look at sexy or nude pictures of women but I dont masturbate to those. I only masturbate to porn.
     
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  5. Feb 24, 2017 #5
    D . J .

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    One will lead to the other during this process so you may way to avoid both.

    Check out In Case You Didn't Know for strategies and tips to help you along your journey.
     
    D . J ., Feb 24, 2017
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  6. Feb 24, 2017 #6
    Shaparedinem

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    Thanks a lot.
     
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