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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Selfcontrol1, Jun 9, 2018.

  1. Selfcontrol1

    Selfcontrol1 Fapstronaut

    I'm so sad and mad with my self. So long being prisoner of my body lack of self control.. Hope this place can help me. I don't want to be who I am I don't want to masturbate I don't want to watch por or any woman with sexual desires.. I want to get my self under control so I can think about finding a good woman for who she is. Not for how she looks or anything else. CAN THIS PLACE HELP ME. PLEASE I NEED SOME ENCOURAGEMENT
     
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  2. Easy friend, i read somewhere you quit drugs and alcohol, man thats 2/3 of your addictions. Don't bully yourself anymore, that's a huge win in my books. And you'll own this one too in time. You just need to find your mojo. I'll answer your question, take this on seriously and this WILL be the place to help you. I'm a week old here, and no guru, i got the same urges as you, but man, we are here aren't we. We made the step to find this place and come here. Brother, in time, this will be behind us. I believe in you
     
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  3. Selfcontrol1

    Selfcontrol1 Fapstronaut

    Man...!! Thank you so much.. I'm impressed already that another guy is encouraging me about this so delicate staff. I have been so ashamed for this crazy addiction.. And you right The fact that we here have to be a good thing.. I have read alot of articles and try many things but nothing have help. This is the first time that I'm actually talking so open about it . So I want to belive that this will make the difference . I'm also hoping the same for you brother. I know how bad is this because I'm in the same box with not Windows. Thank you again
     
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  4. Der Drachenkönig

    Der Drachenkönig Fapstronaut

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    First of all welcome to this wonderful community. I understand how you feel, what you mention is a terrible feeling and sure enough this kind of addiction is among the worst a person can have, but this i tell you, there is always a way out even if you can't see it, always. I won't lie to you, the fight to rid yourself of this addiction is going to be a tough one , but trust me if you take this seriously and don't beat yourself up over it you got this. You've given a great step being so open as you've been about this problem, and this is often the hardest part. From now on put all of your energy on being disciplined and constant. If you need anything we're here to help. Give it your all, in time this will be nothing but a memory. You can do this
     
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  5. Selfcontrol1

    Selfcontrol1 Fapstronaut

    I have to say that right now I'm feeling surprisingly better. In a very different way. Alot of emotions and almost crying. And Im sorry if it sound over the top. But after all this years dealing with this with no one but my self. And getting out my house everyday feeling like I'm hiding a monster inside my head. And now I hear you, welcoming me, in such gentle and friendly way, knowing a huge secret of my self. It's just something totally new for me. All I can tell you is thank you man! And I do want to fight this war with everything I got. I have been fighting, or at less not giving up all the way. I'm bit down emotionally. But I'm here And now I feel that after walking through a desert you giving me a glass of water in a emotional way. Again thank you man. For real.
     
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