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  1. Gymrat_88

    Gymrat_88 New Fapstronaut

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    Hello new to this page. I have always watched porn for well about 10 years now i have times where it was a bit excessive but always managed to cut back or never really needed it everyday.i have a big sex drive unfortunately wish i didnt and the partner i have now is amazing but really doesnt have that big of a sex drive.i have had the same issue with a ex. I find myself sexually frustrated alot and turn to porn to help my urges,needs what have you. Problem is there will be wasted minutes,hours,and i have even wasted days mindlessly searching for porn masterbating taking a short break and back at it again. I am triggered very easily to watch porn could be a random video or pic i see of a random woman or just seeing one in general. I am on day 5 which is big for me right now considering i usually only make it a day without porn. Even if you work double shifts or super tired i have even fallen asleep to it. I feel as though i need it to go to sleep and has even gotten as bad as me watching porn and masterbating at work.as i type now i am triggered. I do realize its not healthy for the simple fact is it has taken over a big part of my life. When my girl does want to have sex i still perform no boner issues but i nearly have a boner all the time. I have sex but takes me alot time to cum if i ever do and find it kinda boring because of the tolerance i have built up by watching some aggressive porn. I guess im just looking for advice and to see if there are people like me in the same situation. My main interest is to not watch porn at all.it has damaged my brain when it comes to sex and has made me at times feel numb to my woman and not very caring and loving because she is not meeting my needs. How do i stop being so darn horny all the time im and in my late 20's.any help is appreciated and it feels good to let this off my chest. Thank you.
     
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  2. Tiger uppercut!

    Tiger uppercut! Moderator Assistant
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    Hello and welcome! :)

    We are glad to have you as a part of our community. Here is some quick links to get you started.

    - You can set up your day counter here
    - You can find the forum usage guide here
    - Here is we’re you will find a glossary of terms often used in the nofap community. Glossary
    - You can also find a guide to the basics of rebooting here
    - If you wish to keep a journal of your progress you can do so in the appropriate section found here

    There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help you along on your journey to a life free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!
     
  3. fg4795

    fg4795 Fapstronaut

    that's why we all are here.. Feel welcome and free to say whatever you want and you will not be judged.. This one is a community that has main goal the team improvement.. you'll discover we are all on the same boat maybe differente strange tastes but that's it we all have something we are ashamed of.. And we're here to defeat this.. here some basic tips:
    1) start a journal to keep track of your improvements
    2) add something to your daily routine to concentrate on something positive.. Like meditation or maybe praying depends on you
    3) do not lose momentum for any reason if it'll happen that you lose just write here and go back on your track
    best wishes from all of you
     
  4. The Winner

    The Winner Moderator Assistant Staff Member Moderator Assistant

    Hey & Welcome to NoFap Community! :)

    You are in the right place for recovery here. We are so glad to have you with us to beat this addiction together.

    You can go read some Success Stories in the "Success Stories" section to learn more about the benefits of NoFap , get useful tips and ideas to help you in the reboot.

    If you have any question about rebooting, you can ask it in the "Rebooting" section.


    And I would recommend you to make your own journal in the "Reboot logs" corresponding to your gender & age to track your everyday progress.
    You can also join challenges in the "Events & Challenges" section, to keep yourself motivated and focused.




    You may start by checking the links below:
    Learn more about Rebooting.
    Forum Usage Guide.
    List of Rebooting Ressources.
    Glossary of terms used in NoFap community.





    Best of luck to you in your journey!





    -The Winner
     
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  5. Always be positive

    Always be positive Fapstronaut

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