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Never Stops right?

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by FindingAName, Jun 16, 2017.

  1. FindingAName

    FindingAName Banned User

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    everytime im even slightly bored i instantly think of jerking off ^^
    well this is going to be a fun 6-9 months of urges :D {kill me}
     
  2. NotSoAverageJoe

    NotSoAverageJoe Fapstronaut

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    Step 1: go to a therapist, be honest, admit to everything
    Step 2: look into your past, find out why you got addicted in the first place
    Step 3: Stay busy. Friends, work, gym, reading, meditation.....
     
  3. Hi, FindingAName. No, it never stops. Not by itself. It is you who must step in and stop it. And you are not alone. You've got great advice from NotSoAverageJoe.

    From my experience, waiting for this addiction to stop means that we don't interfere with it and we allow it to manifest as it likes. What are the odds for it to stop by itself?

    Also, addiction is not an alien 'thing' or a curse coming from the exterior. It's our own behavior. It's ourselves behaving in a self-destructive way.

    So, if you're waiting for this to stop, it's like admitting that you have no will power and you are waiting for your addiction to make up its mind and make the decision to stop. Instead of thinking of your problem as an addiction (as if it was an entity coming from outside), think of it as yourself being and addict. You don't have an addiction, you are an addict - that is a person that behaves in a special way.

    Don't forget that you are in a position of power: stopping this behavior doesn't need high-level skills or memorizing complicated information. It just needs your determination and your desire to live better and improve yourself. It's you who holds the switch, nobody can make you think about sex or watch porn. It's also you who can put something valuable instead of the PMO addiction.
     
  4. r8js

    r8js Fapstronaut

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    we have 100000members here, donot need u to get bored.......right ?
    go to your news feed page. it updates every minutes. read it. post ur thoughts.
     
  5. FindingAName

    FindingAName Banned User

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    i dont have work, i dont go gym {but i could} reading is for losers :D meditation i tried it just seems dumb to me, and i dont have friends because im leaving school in a week its hard to just find the source of why i was addicted, to go to a therapist i would have to consult my family and i dont want to tell them EVER
     
  6. NotSoAverageJoe

    NotSoAverageJoe Fapstronaut

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    I'm gonna assume you're under 18 so peace amd good luck
     

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