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Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by MathMan, Nov 16, 2018.

  1. MathMan

    MathMan Fapstronaut

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    I am 15 years old, and since beginning the non PMO journey, I have been taken to a lot of places and my way of thinking has changed considerably.

    As a result of the reboot, I have begun to wish of being in relationships, or at least friends, with girls. The thing is, before I started the non PMO, I was in a bad state. I objectified women, was addicted to porn and generally rejected friendly advances by other girls.

    Now, its come back to bite me. The same girls that I ridiculed are still in my class and I guess it's understandable that they don't really like me. Still, during the reboot, I've worked to change this, with some success, but even outside of school, I feel really shy around girls and have trouble approaching them to make conversation.

    However, another thing is that at 15 years old, I am in the phase of life where I should focus more on studies so that I can get a good college and hence a good job, but still my mind yearns for interacting with girls, and trying to be normal around them.

    Can you give me any advice on how to approach girls? Should I even indulge in this at the present?
    I'm open to suggestions and advice.
     
  2. SpoonDog

    SpoonDog Fapstronaut

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    It sounds like the reboot has helped mature you, which is clearly to your benefit.

    In terms of you doing this right now, I would say definitely go for it. Get as much experience of interacting with girls as you can under your belt. I doubt it will impact on your studies too much, if at all. I say this as someone who had little-to-no interaction with the opposite sex at your age and paid the price later on.

    Just talk to them like normal people and don't put them on a pedestal. The more experience you pick up now, the easier it will be in the future.
     
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  3. MathMan

    MathMan Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the advice! I will try and work on this.
     

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