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Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by London_Canada, Jan 3, 2017.

  1. Jan 3, 2017 #1
    London_Canada

    London_Canada Fapstronaut

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    I recently moved to a new country to be with my girlfriend who I haven't lived with for a year (we were long distance). since arriving i have found things stressful and have fallen back into watching porn almost every day. this has been going on for almost five months now. Im ashamed to say it but i have recently even been masturbating whilst she is asleep and watching porn whilst she is in the bath etc. i really need to get a handle on things as i hate myself for doing this.
     
    London_Canada, Jan 3, 2017
    London_Canada, Jan 3, 2017
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  2. Jan 23, 2017 #2
    Rion008

    Rion008 Fapstronaut

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    Maybe it's time to discover Natural Grounding...it's a healthier replacement to porn and can help u transition out of the deep attachment AND it will help with connection with ur GF
     
    Rion008, Jan 23, 2017
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  3. Jan 26, 2017 #3
    Strength And Light

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    Hi LC. It sounds like you've been using masturbation as a way to soothe or cope with your stress. In essence, you have a masturbation problem and porn is a tool to aid in that. I suggest you try attacking the problem from that angle - focus on abstaining from masturbation. When you abstain from masturbation, the porn will naturally fall away. It's not easy of course, but it's certainly something you can do. Do you keep a journal on here? If not, I highly suggest you start one in the forum section for your age group.

    Best of luck!
     
    Strength And Light, Jan 26, 2017
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