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Need a new approach

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Beayur, Nov 22, 2017.

  1. Beayur

    Beayur Fapstronaut

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    Hello everyone. I'm an 18 year old college student and I started nofap about this time last year I think. I've never lasted longer than 26 days, and I'm currently in a rut of binging throughout this week.

    Starting nofap has led to a central obsession with self improvement, but my weak and uncertain character makes it hard to follow through with the things I've learned, and now that I'm in college, I can see the danger of failure creeping up behind me.

    I've grown up very sheltered in one sense -- I'm very introverted and judgemental--but the internet, specifically porn, has created a rift in my personality. I discovered 4chan when I was around 13 years old, and spent almost all my time between that and playing video games until the age of 17. I've successfully quit 4chan and gaming, but porn and the antisocial attitude that I developed still grip me.

    My goals are not to have sex or get a girlfriend, though that would be nice. I want to build character and integrity,make good friends , and triumph over rampant self-doubt and anxiety. Actualization.
     
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  2. LEPAGE

    LEPAGE Fapstronaut

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    Welcome Beayur, and good luck.
     
  3. Septimus

    Septimus Fapstronaut

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    Welcome @Beayur, I'm glad you're here. Congratulations on making the right decision in coming here!

    I hope you keep coming back; and don't hesitate to reach out to anyone who you think can help you. We're all here to help one another.
     

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