I believe in natural consequences. We've all talked about Boundaries and essentially beat that topic to death. So for this, I want to focus on consequences only. Specifically I am interested in: What Consequences did you implement immediately upon DDay? How much have your Consequences changed as you navigated the healing process? What do your Consequences look like today? Do you have any regrets over the Consequences you've made? Have you upheld the Consequences? And if not, how long before you did uphold them? If you didn't uphold your Consequences, why? What Consequences worked for you? What Consequences didn't work for you? Having implemented your Consequences, what is your relationship status? What trouble/experiences did your Partner have upholding your defined Consequences? Where they effective in maintaining the Boundaries for which they were defined? That's all for now...I may add some more later. Answer what you can. Ignore what you can't. I appreciate the feedback. Thanks!