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My road to fixing PIED

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Tuyi, Jun 18, 2019.

  1. Tuyi

    Tuyi Fapstronaut

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    Hey there nofap.

    I've been trying for awhile, had some 3 or even 10 and 30 day streaks already, however these time periods didn't fix my PIED, I've decided to make this topic as an accountability thing.

    What's my motivation? Be the best boyfriend my girlfriend can have, a little background story is in order.

    I've got a wonderful girlfriend, she's my world, my everything, she's extremely beautiful to me, however because of my addiction to PMO, I've not been able to perform as i would like, which is as worse as it is for me, it causes her self image to be destroyed, thinking I'm not that into her.

    Why am I still into PMO before this when having a girlfriend? I'm in a long distance relationship, we are across the globe, you can fill in the rest about why this would cause you to PMO.

    I'm currently on a 5 day and 11 hour streak and counting, from today I'm going to check in every day on this topic.

    What's my goal?

    My main goal is to naturally fix my PIED, fix my desensitized brain, the benefits that come together with this I will take gladly, but this is my main goal, my motivation is making this relationship work, for me, but also my girlfriend.

    Wish me luck.
     
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  2. Good luck man!
    I'm in a similar situation with a long distance relationship and trying to get rid of PIED, so I really wish you to succeed fast and well
     
  3. Tuyi

    Tuyi Fapstronaut

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    Yeah, I've been PMOing before I've been in this relationship, so it being long distance this time isn't inherently to blame for this.

    Thanks for your wishes, goodluck to you aswell, let me know any developments for yourself aswell, as this influences everyone differently I'd like to hear everyone's experiences.

    I'm also interested in your story, how did you get where you are?
     
  4. Yes, we can keep each other updated on the progress. That would be great

    Well, as for the PMO, I started with that crap when I was 14-15 and (27 now) and ever since I was 19 I've been trying to quit. I managed some long streaks. Longest was a bit more than 2 years, then I thought: hey, I can watch just once, nothing will happen! And of course then I was hooked again. Now, I've never had much luck with girls, but last summer I had the possibility to go with a girl without commitment and when we got to the bedroom I couldn't get it up. So I looked at the causes for this on the internet and (approx 2 months ago) I found out this forum so I decided to give it a try. In the meantime, since last October, the long distance relationship I was mentioning also started.

    In these 65 days I've seen things improve a bit, but they definitely don't seem normal yet. So I wanna keep going some more. Then if things aren't fixed, I guess I'll have to see a doctor
     
  5. Tuyi

    Tuyi Fapstronaut

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    That's great that your making progress, still keeping this up myself, going strong.

    I can tell you that ED drugs really isn't the route, I've gotten it prescribed and it does work, but in my case even at the highest dose, only seems to make penetrative sex possible, but I've still had moments where I'd lose the erection entirely...

    ED drugs work in the basis that theres sexual arousal... and you could guess why I lost the erection.. as the brain is that desensitized even with help it didn't go well, so I dont think this will be the awnser for most here with PIED.
     
  6. Tuyi

    Tuyi Fapstronaut

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    That's great that your making progress, still keeping this up myself, going strong.

    I can tell you that ED drugs really isn't the route, I've gotten prescribed , and it does work, but in my case even at the highest dose, only seems to make penetrative sex possible, but I've still had moments where I'd lose the erection entirely...

    ED drugs work in the basis that theres sexual arousal... and you could guess why I lost the erection.. as the brain is that desensitized even with help it didn't go well, so I dont think this will be the awnser for most here with PIED.
     
  7. SPIDER365

    SPIDER365 New Fapstronaut

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    Hi guys, i am new into this forum and i believe i got PIED too.. I have went to happy ending massage and thats where i noticed that i could not have eraction ( but i can have it during P and M..). Today is my 6th day no PMO.. i plan to stop P and M for lifetime but i hoped no PMO will fix in a month but as i read you guys did alot more and it is still there.. problem is i am going to get married, if it does not fix before than, do you guys think its ok to use pills? It will be crazy to not having it work at start.. :/
     
  8. When are you getting married?
    I have never tried pills so I don't know if they work or not, but I would recommend talking about the problem with your wife. Hopefully she would understand and agree to wait for you to solve this problem.
    Anyway congrats on your 6 clean days, keep going man!
     
  9. Tuyi

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    Well they work on sexual arousal, and if your brain is already desensitized, the little arousal you do feel, can be most likely also not enough, it's the case for me, a friend I have, same situation due to same cause as me.

    Trust me, ED drugs ain't no miracle cure, it also depends on the arousal factor just as much as you normally do, it just makes it so not as much is needed to get you going, but someone heavily desensitized will still face problems.

    Look it up about ED drugs, it's on the web, no sexual arousal... nothing happening downstairs... the pill won't get you a 4 hour boner as the movies :D
     
  10. Saw some progress yesterday and today :D
    I had the strongest morning woods in years, and today I was getting hard just by texting about regular things with the girl I like
     
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  11. SPIDER365

    SPIDER365 New Fapstronaut

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    The thing is one time i tried the "rhino fastact and long lasting" pill and it worked to get it up but i could not ejaculate.. it does do it but unhostly i stll dont know if its just p and m or its performancr anxity also.. :/
     

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