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My life is blander than your mums cooking.

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Jackb97, Dec 19, 2018.

  1. Jackb97

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    Lonely, bored and no motivation to do anything about it.
    Any of you have some tips on how to get out of this rut.
     
  2. fapequalsdeath

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    How does this site differ from facebook group where you have millions of users? And OP, stop crying I'm also in a rut, but I could get myself out of it if i wanted. I don't do it cuz it's hard to study, hard to go out and meet women, but the more I procrastinate the more I feel the pain of regret. And that's what scares me the most.
     
  3. Jackb97

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    If you could get out of it you would.
     
  4. Grandpa61

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    Find some activity that you enjoy that has a big enough crowd that you can be anonymous but forces you to be among other people. For me that’s Men’s college basketball. Buy your tickets for today’s game and the next game. Always buy future tickets at every game. It will help get you committed to making this a habit. If you don’t want to talk to anyone then don’t but don’t be rude about it.

    I’m an extrovert but suffer from depression. I don’t know any strangers and will talk to anyone. But sometimes I feel like the loneliest guy on the planet.

    Going to a game gets me out of my own head and it really helps. Plus it’s not easy to PMO if you’re at a game!
     
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  5. bloomz

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    Round of applause for terrible advice. “Stop crying” lets make him feel worse
     
  6. I permanently deleted my facebook account and all social media a year or so ago. Social media can be just as addictive as Porn and ruins my ability to focus on any task for extended periods of time. You should research it if you haven't already.
     
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  7. have u tried?
     
  8. Grandpa61

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    Cant day I've PMOd at a game, I shoylf have said it is harder than PMOing at home alone. Ad for going to games I go once or twice a week!
     
  9. Jackb97

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    He's trying to do the tough love act. Which is irrelevant as I'm not crying im just bored. Crying would be a fun way to mix it up lol.
     
  10. I am in this same rut. I feel like I have no purpose atm.
     
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  11. Jackb97

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    Get another world war going aha.jkjk
     
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  12. bloomz

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    I’ve never had a purpose. Let’s start a club, oh wait this is one
     
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  13. Ra's Al Ghul

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    Just get out of the house. Go out to a political protest and get in peoples faces and start arguing. ( this is if youre super bored)
     
  14. I am highly offended by the title. lol :D
     
  15. bloomz

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    I wish my mom cooked. She made pasta once
     
  16. Jackb97

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    I've never seen a political protest here in England. Don't even know what I'd protest. All protesters are libs.
     

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