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My first flatline (I think?)

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Bran, Jan 22, 2014.

  1. Bran

    Bran Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys,

    I've been riding high this week feeling better than I have felt literally in years. I thought life was pretty good before, but this is such a whole new level.
    With in 3 weeks no P and 3 days no MO I had my first hook up in three years and damn did it feel good.
    I also took a beautiful girl to coffee and we're going on a real date this Saturday. So pumped.

    However I woke up today less than spectacular. Really I should just chalk this up to the usual ebb and flow of life (I can't expect to be sailing every day) because when guys describe flatlining it sounds a lot worse.

    Anyway I am still feeling the most important improvements from NoFap such as confidence in approaching people, and girls in particular, and I surprised myself today by treating my professors like... people! Usually I become a pussy for some reason (too much respect for their authority?) so that was great. Powerful.
    The only difference is I don't feel very "hot" what so ever. I don't feel that INSANE motivation to go meet girls and have sex yadda yadda. No erections at all today, none of that fire in the belly.
    But that's okay, to me that is the "gravy" of my results, you know? My confidence and everything else was diminished a bit without the ..."fire-y-ness," but I still feel a hell of a lot better than before I quit MO and 10x better than before I quite P.

    Anyone experience a flatline in the same way? Or is this just the tip of the iceberg...?


    Also. I gotta update here. This girl that I'm taking out Saturday. As i'm leaving campus for the night I happened to run in to her in the bike. She is clearly into me and, for the first time in ages I am getting so crazy over a girl! :D It feels great to really FEEL again! I have to keep cool... don't want to be all weird, but I am SO pumped for Saturday. Thank you, nofap community, for your support. I haven't been open to this side of life in years.
     
  2. Silver

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    The only thing I notice is that you have this 'dip' after orgasm. Could be that you are experiencing that, could be that you just aren't "fired up" today. Pretty normal if you ask me, you can't ask for the full 100% every day ;)

    Have fun on your date!
     

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