Here are the boundaries I've decided on for my SO. Any feedback or advice would be greatly appreciated. I'm also struggling with consequences 1. No porn or porn substitutes 2. No objectifying women ie no looking up pictures of naked women, or women on social media for the purpose of sexual fantasy 3. If a friend' intentionally or Not, does something to hurt one of us, or come between us, they are no longer welcome in either of our lives in any capacity, including social media. This one doesn't really have anything to do with his porn addiction, but a female friend of his kissed him on the mouth at a party right in front of me once (he didn't reciprocate), and i had to fight with him for weeks to block her on facebook. They still follow eachother on instagram which he never uses so i forgive him for not blocking her there, but he needs to get that done. 4 no hanging around with a certain single friend, who likes to hang around with young women when that young female friend is aound, unless I'm there as well if she shows up, you leave. The first time he hung out with this friend and his female friend, his phone "died" and he didn't come home until 3am. The next time we went to the bar she works at, as a group, and she singled out my SO and flirted with him like they had a thing. Now every time I see her, she gives me dirty looks. He says nothing happened. I believe him, but it doesn't look good. 5. If you relapse, notify me within 24 hours 6. We will allow each other access to the others electronics devices. Privacy is a privilege. I am voluntarily waiving my right to privacy in the name of fairness and transparency.