I've been using Tinder on and off for nearly a year, and Bumble for a few months. I've had some dates through Tinder, but none through Bumble yet (but I have had matches and messages). One thing I've realised, though, is that the longer you are on these apps, the fewer matches you get. It seems that it can be a vicious circle where once you have been swiped left a lot of times you then get shown to fewer women. There eventually comes a "point of no return" where you no longer get any matches at all. But I recently realised that you can just close your account and reopen it with the same details and you go back to the beginning and get more matches again. So I decided to try something cheeky. I decided to see what would happen if I did something really bold and different to what I've done before. So yesterday I set up my profiles with a description saying: "Good with my tongue, happy to go down, and eager to please. Your pleasure is my #1 priority. Satisfaction guaranteed!" As of this morning, no matches on Tinder yet, but I have had some matches and one message on Bumble. HOWEVER, I've just received an email from Bumble saying this: "Your profile has been moderated Bumble is a safe place to meet people, and we want everyone to feel comfortable in the Hive. We’ve received reports about your Bumble bio and kindly ask that you do not add inappropriate content to your profile. If this happens again, your account may be blocked." I didn't receive anything like that from Tinder, though. But anyway, I have changed my profiles to say this: "Looking for something casual to begin with, see what happens..." The idea is to see what happens if I just aim for something casual. Up until now, I've played it more in such a way that I have been aiming for a relationship. But I'm just curious to see if there are many women out there who would be up for something casual, and to see if that would be easier than trying to find a full-on relationship, to begin with at least. I'm not going to pretend I particularly know what I'm doing. But that's the whole point. I am experimenting to see what works. I'm messing about, because it doesn't really matter. If I mess it up, I can just delete my profiles and start again with a different tactic. Life's too short to be too sensible all the time and worry too much. Sometimes you've just got to mess about and see what happens. Often playing too safe can hold you back, so sometimes it's worth trying something different for a laugh.