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Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Katrina Rose, Jul 16, 2018.

  1. goodnice

    goodnice Fapstronaut

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    The solution is stop watching movies period
     
  2. As a PA, I had to go through this whole learning curve many, many times. There is no safe way to predict what one film is going to be, ever. And what your husband is doing, is me two years ago!
    For god's sake, in attempts to not watch this "filth", I started focusing only on animation movies, only to come up with some other innuendo sex talk scenes.
    The list what can be called P-subs is infinite. The best solution was given by someone before me!

     
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  3. Selfcontrol1

    Selfcontrol1 Fapstronaut

    Stop washing thise movies. I got rid of all my movies, including non porn movies but with nudity in it. It's worth it
     
  4. Katrina Rose

    Katrina Rose Fapstronaut

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    He won't let me get rid of them. 3/4 of his movie collection has graphic nudity.
     
  5. Queen_Of_Hearts_13

    Queen_Of_Hearts_13 Fapstronaut

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    Do you not live together? if you live together you can get rid of the movies.
    My husband and i are actually having a movie night tonight ..first in a long time and i went through every option we were choosing from and he had no issue that i threw a movie out of the options because of lots of cleavage. I can't tell you how hard it was to find a non triggering movie, but it can be done.

    You have a right to a safe home environment. Don't let your husband control you. You have a right to feel safe, dont forget that.
     
  6. Selfcontrol1

    Selfcontrol1 Fapstronaut

    Well. Keeping the respect you're husband deserves for being you're husband. Continue communicating with him
     
  7. For those that require detailed reviews of films with nudity, try this site: https://kids-in-mind.com/ See About below...

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    It's like a food labeling system which tells you what a food item contains. That's it. We make no judgments about what is good or bad or anything else. Indeed, we do not "condemn," "critique" or "criticize" movies. And we don't "praise" or "recommend" movies either. We advance no "beliefs" and we do not "preach" anything. We are not affiliated with any political party, any cultural or religious group, or any ideology. The only thing we advocate is responsible, engaged parenting.

    If one reads our reviews one will often find many instances where our descriptions are so detailed they seem absurd. But we'd rather err on the side of comprehensiveness. It's up to parents to decide which details are useful to them and their family, and which ones they consider fatuous.

    Parents should seek out sites like ours and make decisions based on objective information about content. Our position is that no organization should be involved in arbitrating who should or shouldn't see a film (especially one as closely involved with Hollywood as the MPAA). What we'd like to see is many independent organizations like ours distributing ratings to media outlets and theater chains. And allow the marketplace work. Consumers will choose the ratings system that serves them best in making a decision, according to their own values and priorities -- we freely admit that we think our ratings are hard to improve upon, but the consumer should be allowed the final decision.

    The fact is, however, that while the current system does not serve consumers well, it works perfectly for the filmmakers, the studios and the theater chains. It is based on a cozy relationship between the MPAA, the film industry, and the theater chains. It is a malleable system that can be altered at will to accommodate changes in the market. For instance, the rating of choice right now is PG-13. A movie with a PG-13 rating is just easier to market: parents like it better than the more adult R-rating, and kids like it better than the more juvenile PG rating; plus, a PG-13 rating is merely a "cautionary" rating, as opposed to the more restrictive R rating (although, of course, anybody, of any age, can watch any R-rated movie as long as he's accompanied by an "adult guardian"; in some locales any 17-year-old will do).

    So, in order to accommodate the marketing demands of studios and theaters, the MPAA has been slowly but surely changing its criteria so that a PG-13 movie today contains far more violence, sexual content and profanity than a few years ago (for example, it used to be that one F-word would garner a film an R rating; now it takes 3 or more F-words).
     
  8. Katrina Rose

    Katrina Rose Fapstronaut

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    We're not married. Been living together for almost a year. We are working on communication. Understanding projection and being transparent. He understands the triggers, but I'm still made to feel guilty if i throw a movie out that's centered on strip clubs and such.
     
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  9. Selfcontrol1

    Selfcontrol1 Fapstronaut

    I can see that is complex. And I'm sorry you guys are going through all this problems that without a doubt can be very stressful.
    I'm assuming that before was not like that, because is espected that you already have a awesome communication when you Friends before moving on into becoming boyfriend and girlfriend right. Now it's complex but at the same time you still have the freedom to break apart if there's not understanding. Sorry again. I can tell you care. But if the moral standards are not a match that could be a serious compromise that if you going to go for it then you going to need to accept it in order to keep the relative Peace
     

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