Most embarassing P.I.E.D story?

First congrats on going 90 days, hope to get there myself. My most embarrassing story is when a friend of mine invited me to a sex club. Hooked up with this hot girl wearing nothing but see through Victoria secret lingerie in front of a room full of people. Needless to say no matter how hard she or I tried there was absolutely no response from downstairs (flatline). She ended up laughing at me in front her friends who were also hot and wearing Victoria secret. While driving back home, in shame, I let go of the wheel. That was a tough night

 

PIED with a girl who was supposed to be my first,we tried everything but still there was no action from my penis. It was so embarrassing I woke up in the middle of the night and she was laying there naked but still no action. A few weeks down the line I hooked up with another girl and it was effortless I think the nerves and the pressure of it being the first time is what's getting in the way. Anyways let's keep at it gents.

And congrats on the 90 days my brother.

 

Interesting, this thread brought back an embarrassing memory of a high school party. I thought it was always nerves or something. But I watched so much porn back then it was probably related to that.

I just hooked up with a girl in a shower during this party with most of my friends there. Everyone was actually proud of me, was going to be my first time etc. Anyways no success, it didn't bother me too much at the time. But then she went around telling everyone about it, complete bitch.

Luckily I had a backup story... She smoked a lot, and her face really did smell like an ashtray, so I said that was a turn off and I think some people believed me lol.

One thing I have learned though... if it's just nerves, I can slowly build up that drive by engaging in foreplay instead. That helped me anyways.

Also, congrats on the 90 mate!

 

Hi I’m female and I wanted to tell you that the first time that we sleep with a man it sucks 99% of the time and we expect it to. The man had PE, DE or difficulty getting hard. It’s almost expected and likely due to nerves. If this is your first time you can multiply those nerves times 100 and the likelihood that it will not be good sex. If you do not know this girl all that well then you are even more nervous! And a lot of men would not be turned on by a prostitute. Did she know it was your first time?

When I lost my virginity at 17 I had been with my boyfriend for three years but even he had a hard time staying hard. We were nervous we had no clue what we were doing. It got a lot better the more we practiced. And yes women are nervous too when we first sleep with you it just does not show externally like your nerves so and while you have performance anxiety we have body anxiety. Do I look fat etc.

I am in no way saying you should not give up pmo if you see that as a problem. P often makes your nerves worse because it gives you unrealistic ideas and standards for how sex should be and how you should perform. So you are sitting there focusing on how you are going to rock it like that porn star did and that in itself makes you nervous. Nobody’s first time is like a porn video. And while in the course of your life you may have porn sex a few great amazing times, most of the sex you will have will look nothing like it does in P.

I think you should do a 90 day hard reboot and then focus on dating and a relationship not sex. Sex will come from that. Get off of POF, tinder and match and any free dating sites. If you online date use eharmony. They are geared towards relationship minded people. I am telling you this as I was on all of them and have a good bit of experience. Or don’t online date at all instead build your life around things you enjoy and the right woman is bound to come along or at the very least you can meet some women and become friends then feel more comfortable overall with women. Join a social sport like kickball. Volunteer lots more women volunteer than men I know cause I do. If you are religious go to church. Look up from your phone in public situations and if a girl smiles at you say hello.

Part of what I see with young people particularly men is that they don’t have the same experiences with socializing and being around the opposite sex as people did when I was in high school 20 years ago. People just don’t communicate they are wrapped up in phones, they are at home on the internet I mean truly you have everything you need in your bedroom. But if you had no tv or internet or porn you went out and did stuff with real people. So that’s what I recommend to you. Practice makes perfect and that’s true with both sex and women.