Masturbation conditions you to ejaculate improperly.

Really good topic! I do not agree with every point, but i see the big picture in it and you are totally right on this on in my opinion, we train ourselves to not get a woman and ejaculate in her. Most are taking the "easy" way and just jerk off.

I really like how you represented semen as a high value male body fluid that women definitly crave for. As we crave for a woman and her feminine essence, her vagina and boobs, we as man have a lot of things to offer to a woman. Muscles and male body shape are just the outside thing, there is so much more. Emotional stability, courage, but also semen.

Unfortunately most porn movies show semen as something you can just throw away easily, it is most times not praised or valued as something really honorable. In the hawaii culture the genitals are considererd holy and mating is in their culture nothing to be shamed about. No one there suffers under PIED or PE. Why? Because Grandparents and parents raise their kids to not be ashamed and have sex.

Im coming more from the emotional side and im not a fan of big study acclaimed thesis. What i want to add is this: Sasha Cobra, a tantric woman was once asked if a man should masturbate or ejaculate. She answered like this: How do you feel after that? Do you feel fullfilled and satisfied? Then you should definitely do it and be happy. However, most guys are reporting, that after ejaculation they feel depleted, empty, like in a void. Thats exactly why you should not ejaculate.

I for myself like masturbation and i have no problem doing it. However, I noticed by doing it to often, that orgasms will not be as powerful as before and sometimes i ejaculated without an orgasm which feels unsatisfying. And this is the problem. Most guys are settling for really unfullfilled binging sessions and deplete their complete potential.

My advice to this is something like this: Atleast, give your body some time to "reload". Masturbation is healthy in a way you feel good about yourself. If you feel good about you masturbating once a week and it makes you the happiest person on earth then do it ( of course without porn). With this happiness you are far more attractive to women but this is another topic. I would never suggest anyone to completly abstain from mastubation with yourself because of cancer cells being created after a few days in your balls. But, i would definitely say, give your body time to fill yourself up again and do not ever deplete yourself completly. Be aware, that semen is a ressource of high value and it needs a lot of energy being created.

In the end, the cuckolding you described is a really dangerous and destructive habit. I really liked, how you made the connection there and explained it with the bull. I do not think its only about the semen. The alpha male has many attractive traits and they all add to each other what makes him most attractive. Its not just the semen, its a big psychological complex.

The first step to enter into this alpha male thinking process could be: Why should i masturbate now if had done it every day for the last 7 days? Why should i really go for another unsatisfying orgasm or only ejaculation? Why do i think, that my semen is of low value? Why do i think, that semen is just a thing to throw away?

 

Yeah and smoking help u to take bigger breaths? Maybe there is some good in it but the bad side more important.

 

Wow, this is so true. Never looked at it this way before but you're right. Good thing that I'm quitting all this sh*t for good.

 

Brilliant post. There ought to be more conversations about linking semen to masculinity.

 

If you read the accounts in the Success Stories forum on NoFap, the thing you will see consistently reported over and over again, is an improvement in social anxiety. Think about the above quote. Watching another man possibly impregnating a woman you were attracted to. Then another man with another woman. Watching this over and over and over and over in each PMO session has to have a crippling effect on your social psyche. With porn you are ALWAYS the lowest in the social scale: the voyeur. You are socially invisible, a zero. In quitting porn you are also quitting the social handicapping effect.

 

Humans not promiscuous? Come one!! What about all those fucking around in married couples? Humans are animals, if there is something not in human nature but created by society and human morals it is monogamy. There are many animals that masturbate (even dog) and the thing about semen is healthy for females is just ridiculous. Sorry, don’t want to offend, but all that science behind your words just seems some religious/moral madness.

 

Incredible post

 

In a bad way I hope you mean

 

I prefer to believe and listen to science, not moral or religious believes. Doing so and Being homosexual would mean hell... so

 

Please, give likes to proof (proof is what science does). Otherwise throes are simple statements of what YOU think.