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Maintaining erection for longer periods after reboot

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by BRNDMG, Nov 24, 2016.

  1. BRNDMG

    BRNDMG New Fapstronaut

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    Hi, I'm new here and as many others i only recently disocovered i suffer from PIED.

    For the last couple of years i have pretty much stopped using my imagination and have been watching only porn to masturbate and did not have sex, now i am rebooting after realizing i have lost sensitivity while attempting to have sex recently.

    THE MAIN REASON WHY I MADE THIS THREAD IS:
    I was able to maintain my erections for hours on end while having sex (1-2 hours on average, even longer if i tried really hard and the sex was good), does this ability come back?
    I want to know from people who had the same issue and rebooted, does this ability go back to normal? Does the reboot take much longer in order for this to be achieved?

    Share your experiences with me please, this is/was my "wow" effect on women and my "pride" and I started battling mild depression once i realized i underperform due to dopamine receptors being desensitized and my penis losing sensitivity due to constant death gripping, I just hope it's not too late to recover.

    Thank you for your feedback, cheers and beers
     
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  2. GradBeo

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    BRNDMG

    Thanks for your question concern. Replying with my heart I feel the same; around 10 days NoFap brings me a flatline. When I see women I realize I can only get a hard one if I imagine what I see in the movies. Otherwise, no response.

    Replying with my brains and my belief is that NoFap in the long run will really give you back what you lost.

    Tip: Read more success stories or view more Youtube success stories and get inspired to get on going!
     
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  3. dodot007

    dodot007 Fapstronaut

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    Any improvement?
     
  4. Daxos

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    It will come back. I remember well the times during my reboot where I would get random boners that lasted so fricking long. I was amazed at how well NoFap works. I remember one time I was sitting on my bed eating a meal, and I happened to think about a girl I spoke earlier to on a party, and in mere seconds I got a 100% erection that lasted a good 5 minutes with me trying my best to focus on something else to make it go down. I mean, I was trying to eat. So where before I had trouble getting it up to 75% while watching porn, I was now having a random erection on 100% power for 5 full minutes while having only a very small stimulation, my thoughts. And I wasn't even thinking of anything dirty, just the conversation I had with her and how good she looked. That was it.

    That was my WOW-moment where I realized that PMO is the greatest enemy I have ever faced and that NoFap is the only way out.
     
  5. Rev2.0

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    Yes, this is EXACTLY how it works. Bigger, harder erections that last longer with little or no self-handling and often, only very mild visual or mental stimulation. Well said.
     
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  6. In some people it improves over time. Fortunately, it seems that for most people this improves based on what I have read for years.

    For example: My last reboot lasted five months. At five months I was feeling sexually and emotionally interested in women who previously had not attracted me at all.

    In fact, I felt an erection just saying hello if I met them on the way.

    I mean women I have known for a while. Unfortunately I relapsed recently because I had stored energy and did not exercise. This produced insomnia and I relapsed.

    Now: It is normal that, as a result of age, these abilities diminish very slowly.

    For example: I speak with men aged 50 and over who confess that they no longer get hard just with their imagination, or they confess that their refractory period is quite long. Age plays an important role in the loss of these skills over time. The truth is, the older you get, the worse it works. But it is the law of life.

    That is why we have to take advantage of these years of youth that we have left and get away from visiting porn sites.
     
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  7. dodot007

    dodot007 Fapstronaut

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    Yes i missed this moment, now i cant maintaining without manual stimulation
     
  8. I've reset a couple times. By testing. A lot of it could be anxiety and negative experiences. I was fantasizing about a woman that I know, early this morning. I was rock hard for a good amount of time.

    I think I'm starting to realize that as our body withdraws from PMO, we are starting to understand that erections maybe don't happen as frequently as we want. I'm 32. I don't get morning woods right now - I hope to god I do. I get nocturnal erections. I spoke to a urologist. He said there's nothing to be concerned about. Yeah, I'll get my t-levels checked, but aside from that it works when I fap - no problem. We all need some down time and to make ourselves better. This could be the root of a lot of our problems. Just imagine how great we'd be.

    Also - I connected with a relative and someone I went to high school with - they both have this problem. This is more common. So as long as all of us may feel isolated. We are not alone. Men just don't openly talk about our sexual health. That's a mistake we have made - so if anything, we are pioneers in the world of having a healthy libido and understanding the negative effects on porn. So let's pass it on to the younger generations to avoid it!
     

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