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Lust or love?

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Deleted Account, Apr 29, 2019.

  1. How have we allowed this "thing" to change us so much.
    Lust has come into our life and completely destroyed the very fabric and foundation of who we are.
    Some of us are young , some are older ,some have kids and job a business we have always wanted to start. Dream and aspiration that we see in our minds.
    But instead we decided to give into to LUST just saying the word give me chills.
    Now gentlemen I'm NOT judging just want to give some perspective.
    Some of us still have our loved ones around and they are unable to know the battle we fight EVERYDAY that's inside us.
    Sometimes I come on here and I scroll through this section specifically.
    And I see men lusting for transgendered person P ,gay P and all kinds of sick unholy behavior. Now understand, I'm no different I also have defiled myself in the name of lust.
    Porn was just the beginning.
    I have had encounters with trannys , cross dressers ,men and other Women all in the Name of LUST. And I have learned after each and every encounter that I had become something else. Someone else I wasn't who I wanted to be inside on the outside I look and feel great but on the inside something has died something life the innocent child the motivated man I once knew had been out of sight not lost or disappeared just out of sight.
    But my friends their is a hope for what is not gone or lost can be regained it takes time and a change of mind to accomplish.
    To regain yourself your self live your heart better yet YOUR SOUL.
    Love my friends practice love. Love yourself first your family your God .
    Love is the only thing that can defeat Lust..
    #becomeajedi.
     
  2. TimeToQuitNow

    TimeToQuitNow Fapstronaut

    Yea this addiction is no joke. It's a battle we are all fighting. But just because a piece of you dies inside doesn't mean a new you, a better you won't rise from the ashes. But you got to work at it. You got to stick to the nofap!
     
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