Love Dare Challenge

So I told a friend that I was going to post this “Daily Love Dare”. It’s something mentioned & demonstrated in the movie “Fireproof”. These exercises are designed to selflessly show love to your partner and to build a genuine intimacy. You are supposed to work through these even on the days you might not want to...

This may not be easy so hang in there...

Good luck the challenge is on!

 

Day 1: Love is Patient

The first part of this date is fairly simple. Although love is communicated in a number of ways, our words often reflect the condition of our heart. For the next day, resolve to demonstrate patience and to say nothing negative to your spouse at all. If the temptation arises, choose not to say anything. It is better to hold your tongue then to say something you’ll regret.

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Day 2: Love is kind

In addition to saying nothing negative today, do at least one unexpected gesture as an act of kindness.

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Day 3: Love is not selfish

Whatever you put your time, energy and money into will become more important to you. It’s hard to care for something you are not investing in. Along with restraining from negative comments, buy your spouse something that says “I was thinking about you today”.

Remember this don’t have to be a huge gift or anything, could just be their favorite candy bar or cup or coffee. If it’s something that shows them you were thinking about them.

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Day 4: Love is thoughtful

Contact your spouse sometime during the business day. Have no agenda other than asking how he or she is doing and if there is anything you could do for them.

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I bought cake
mmmmmmm cake.......

 

Oh now I’m jealous & hungry lol

But good job! Your doing amazing!

 

@Thor god of thunder...

The cake is a lie...

 

LOL ... my son is the gamer but he tells me these things

 

I’m single so I’m going to do these things to myself; although Day 4 will be challenging.

 

LMAO!!!!

This one's for you, @SOB -

You got this, man!

I BELIEVE IN YOU!!!

 

Lmbo!

That’s great!

 

Day 5: Love is not rude

Ask your spouse to tell you three things that cause him or her to become uncomfortable or irritated with you. You must do so without attacking them or justifying your behavior. This is from their perspective only.

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Get on THAT one, @SOB!

I think my SO's reaction will probably be "What, only three things??!"

This is such a great thread, @Broken3, thanks!

 

Thank you . I wish I could say I was doing it with you guys..but I’m not... lol.

I’m totally here for support though! You boys are are rocking it out!!!

@Kenzi & I will be the cheerleaders

 

Haha you can totally rock a skirt though

 

Uhh ..... might have to pick just the right time to ask this one.
It might take a while