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Loss of Respect Towards Women?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by BigandBeastly, May 18, 2017.

  1. BigandBeastly

    BigandBeastly Fapstronaut

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    So ever since i've been trying nofap for the last couple of months ive been getting alot more attention for women. I haven't had a girlfriend in almost two years due to my porn addiction. Every time a cute girl comes around in my life the first thing i do is ignore her. I don't know why this is but all i get is this feeling of anger when ever there is a possibility of getting with her. I really hate this feeling and i was wanting to know if there was anyone out there who has dealt with this and knows a good way to get over it.
     
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  2. r8js

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    same feeeling here.........................i m tired of ths feeling. I am also trying to find out a way. Whenever i attract woman . I feel good. But soon that woman come near me i feel stressed,disgusting , bad , sad , etc etc . As soon as she comes to me, i want to avoid her .
    We need to find a way as soon as possible.
     
  3. Second_chance

    Second_chance Fapstronaut

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    I think it could be many things. First of all porn has so many negative emotions attached to it. Disrespect for women, degradation, violence and hate. So that could be a source. Other situation could be that you become so detached from girls that when someone feels atracted by you, you repel her as a defense mechanism in order to not deal with the situation. If you continue to feel this way I suggest you to seek help on a psychologist to help you understand more where this feelings come from.
     
  4. r8js

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    brain fog is also resposible for this situation. I observed , instead of dealing with any woman , we must deel with brain fog effectively. Handling and dealing with brainog helps . And dealing with brain fog means changine your day to day habits. It somewhat helped me. I want to hear from other people also..... What they have done to reduce brain fog and handle situation with woman.
     
  5. I Free I

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    I've been feeling awesome throughout my journey of NoFap BUT I can honestly say that there is just one thing that I find that is my weakness & that is what you mentioned... "ignoring women & feeling disgusted & angry towards them, even if they are attracted to me" . I really don't know where this come's from but I've been dealing with this for a very long time . I'm still trying to overcome this .
     
  6. YngwieWanksteen

    YngwieWanksteen Fapstronaut

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    Yeah, take a look at this. I became awkward and ignored lots of girls as a defense mechanism because:

    -I did not think I was worth being with because I do not have enough money, ambition
    -I was too boring because I don't have a huge interest in physical activities, don't have a wide circle of friends, I'm not on Facebook
    -I always had an inkling that my penis wouldn't work when it came down to the moment of truth

    Conversely, I also thought I was such a great guy that it was completely unfair that I had to approach a woman, that they should approach me.

    Basically a lot of insecurity and porn was a huge backer of it.
     
  7. Ibnmorales

    Ibnmorales Fapstronaut

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    porn makes the male viewer in my opinion , look at women the way people on here described , it happens to me sometimes when i see a women with skimp clothing i look at her with disgust .
     
  8. YngwieWanksteen

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    Myself as well, but only because I am too insecure to approach a "trashy woman" and really just want to get with her. I'd be lying if I said it was because of the moral outlook that frankly is none of my business how a woman wants to dress.
     
  9. Women are just compliments to life.
     
  10. r8js

    r8js Fapstronaut

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    woman are just compliments to life ...
    I have observed this things in life. Feels really sad
     
  11. mondays_suck

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    Pmo is action habit, but what you have those is thinking habit, you wont change it straight away. Just give it a few shots, and speak to them, i can assure you that most of those will go horribly, but you will get better and your feelings may either change or seem completely justified
     
  12. fapstronaut_12

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    Yes I understand completely...the messed up hormonal and neurotransmitter levels make feel that way....I experienced it in my case...while I was fapping I noticed my reduced interest with real women and was not attracted to even the beautiful ones...
    After nofap I found myself easily excited and attracted to women even if they were completely covered... yes I felt more of a man..I started to respect women and kind of more connected with them...
     
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  13. MarchcharM

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    FAP is an intimacy disorder, or can lead to it, or mask it depending on the case.

    intimacy = into-me-you-see

    be vulnerable, honest and courageous with woman. Men and woman are equals. Doesn't help me to blame women for dressing "slutty" instead I see them as equals and understand that they are victims of our over sexed culture too, they are the prize, the meat, it must be difficult to be seen that way by society. Show empathy to our sister guys! Just my 2 cents.
     

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