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Lonely, and it feels like I'll never find a girl.

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by zxcv, Sep 8, 2017.

  1. Sep 8, 2017 #1
    zxcv

    zxcv Fapstronaut

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    I'm 57 days of no pmo, and things don't seem to be change with the girls at all. So I've been getting more lonely lately, and when I get more lonely it makes it harder deal with the pmo stuff. I mean, the main the reason I used to look at porn was because of my loneliness. I remember directly thinking while looking and being depressed that this is the closed I'm ever going to get to being with a real woman. I don't know why it seems like the no pmo working better for everyone else.
     
    zxcv, Sep 8, 2017
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  2. Sep 8, 2017 #2
    Marcus Aurelius

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    Hey man, I've struggled with similar feelings. Just wanted to let you know you aren't the only one who hasn't become a fearless "chick magnet" since giving up PMO.

    Maybe a change in setting would help? I've been thinking of trying some new things soon to try to meet girls.
     
    Marcus Aurelius, Sep 8, 2017
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  3. Sep 8, 2017 #3
    eadgbe

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    PMO is, no doubt, the biggest problem that users of this site face. However, distancing yourself from PMO should, in my opinion, be a starting point towards building a better version of yourself. Even though I've went through these forums and read accounts of lot of people who are claiming that they've gained "superpowers" by abstaining from PMO, I personally never believed that to be so simple. The key is realizing that you have much more power over yourself than you had previously believed. You prove that to yourself by sticking to nofap, and by eventually gaining the courage to try other new things such as, finding that someone. I don't speak out of experience, but by how I think nofap is supposed to turn out. Best of luck, and keep pushing forward.
     
    eadgbe, Sep 8, 2017
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  4. Sep 8, 2017 #4
    ValueLiberty

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    Do you love yourself? If not, it is impossible to find someone else you can love.

    In order to say "I love you" one must know how to say "I".

    Once I found out who "I" was. Once I stopped "looking" for a girl that is when one "found" me...

    If none of this makes sense to you, it is ok, it did not make sense to me at first either.

    Keep searching inward...
     
    ValueLiberty, Sep 8, 2017
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