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Limp penis even with porn

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Markus_S, Mar 18, 2017.

  1. Anonymous86

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    Sometimes I wonder if I have PIED or not but the big red flag for me is that I can't get aroused and my penis has shrunk and the balls are smaller.
     
  2. Vinek

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    You and I are in a similar situation .
     
  3. Covert

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    1st of all welcome here the first step is taken by you. On your problem right now I don't have a clear idea or can guide you, but whatever it is I strongly suggest that you absolutely free yourself from PMO right now. Start your No Fapjourney right now. Believe me you will notice difference, it can be in any form. Right now your age is 23 and you diagnose that something may be wrong with you, this is another achievement. Whatever my problem is I was not able to judge it at your age. So you have ample time to right yourself.

    Straight up your mind. Then don't search heavily in the internet about your problem, sometimes fussing too much about something gets your/our problem bigger, I often suffer from this. You are at the right place. Now you may find that your problem is not specifically here but see through fellow Fapstronauts problems and solutions given to them you will benefitted believe me. You can specifically see your age group. Upon looking others tailor make your way because we all here for the same reason but our situations and circumstances are different. Now you may that think you are not finding people facing similar situations here so how come we all are here for the same reason. Lets see in detail your problem what might be the cause but it involve porn and masturbation alongwith other things. So you can see,another thing alongwith porn and masturbation related issues at the end of the day we all are here for the betterment of ourselves. You will find many members alongwith myself dealing with other problems like anxiety, depression, fear, isolation, loneliness, etc many other aspects. Me myself also sometimes suffer from the problem of loosing erections while viewing porn. On personal ground I think that over use of porn and masturbation alongwith my fickle mindness, anxiety, etc led to this.

    See I can get a idea what you are feeling right now, but set aside all this and immidiately start NoFap, maintain a log of your journey, seek help from others here. See these two threads beautifully written by @D . J . 1.(https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/in-case-you-didnt-know.84619/) 2.(https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/more-you-may-not-know.95737/).

    It may be like this you will be the solution to this specific problem and people like us will follow you to the betterment of ourselves.
     
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  4. Jay Anthony

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    No, I also couldn't get an erection with porn and when I did it was me forcing it up as much as I could. What I meant is to say is like porn or even my favourite type of porn no longer gave me that excitement or dopamine rush in which my erections were either non existent or weak as hell which meant I could no longer masturbate to porn or even get an erection with a girl.

    However once I completely stopped for around 6 months and then tried to have sex I noticed I had full and harder erections then ever before and the sensitivity when even just kissing never mind having actual sex was so good its difficult to explain unless you've done nofap long enough to notice the difference.

    Just give yourself 3-6 months of proper rebooting and watch how your libido rises, and when the time does come to have sex you will be glad you've gone through all these problems to get where you want to be. In fact I am grateful I experienced PIED and all these problems because it helped create habits like discipline etc, and when I actually did have sex and recover I was even more grateful and relieved which helped me realised porn is the worse thing for a healthy sexual relationship.
     
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  5. Markus_S

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    Can you share your story? :)

    Its great to hear success story from one who had same problems!
    Yeah its pretty difficult, because i dont know if i will ever be normal /: However its day 62 of no PO (did some M 4 days ago), i go to gym every day, time to time i run in late hours.. doing everything i can :)

    When did u notice changes?
    Did u easily quit PMO? I dont have any problems to stop, thats why im asking.
    What about night stands - do u suggest them or not?
     
  6. Health is key

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    Go and YouTube "gabe deem" his story is exactly like yours. He is one of the front runners for rebooting. Listen to his story. Will help you out loads.
     
  7. Ghost_Rider

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    You have PIED, ED.
    nofap for 90 days or even longer , never fap again in your life :) God bless you. :)
     
  8. Ra's Al Ghul

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    Not "sounds like", you definitely got PIED.
     
  9. Jay Anthony

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    You definately will become normal again its just that when you have had the worst case possible of PIED, this means recovery will just take a little longer than usual.

    Changes for me really started happening around 4 plus months, the 3 months or 90 days is nothing more than a myth because I remember even at 90 days my libido was only just then rising. Also, I would not worry about that one day u masturbated, however I would stay clear from now on of any future stimulation for at least 60-90 days as you have already completed 62 days of no porn before trying to have have sex again.

    It was easy to stop PMO because I said to myself enough was enough. Around 2014 October is when I had my first wake up call which I had my first ED encounter in which I thought it was due to anxiety but then when I had tried with another girl a month later, I only managed to recieve oral sex but could not feel anything due to PIED and when it came to sex my penis went limp. The final straw came around 2 months after that when my friend hooked me up with a girl and I felt no nerves or anxiety and was very ready mentally but when I went to have sex with her in the hotel I just could not get an erection at all.

    This forced me do as much research as possible as I just did not know what was wrong with me in which all the internet talked about was performance anxiety and use of pills etc.

    That was until I stumbled across nofap which literally opened my eyes to what was wrong. I was so angry and frustrated at what PIED had done to me although there was tough moments nothing was going to stop me from going at least 4-6 months of no PMO and even when I "relapsed" at 175 daysbthere was no porn involved and it was actually a accident as I was trying to test my erection and it was so sensitive that when I went to get it up, I ejaculated with a semi loool...

    Then I had successful sex not long after that and it was pretty much the best feeling ever. Also, I tend to have one night stands or friends with benefits as I'm only 23 and not really ready for a relationship and have missed out on so much with girls I rather just have something casual then full on but that is a decision you must make yourself.
     
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  10. Markus_S

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    He has problem getting up with girls not with porn, so i had different problem /:

    Thank u for sharing your story! It gives me hope! :)
     
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  11. Markus_S

    Markus_S Fapstronaut

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    Vinek can u please share your story?
     
  12. Health is key

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    No. His got so bad he couldn't get it up with porn either!!
     
  13. Tommy_0113

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    Check my journal. I couldn't get hard to porn either. For a loonngggg time...
     
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  14. Vinek

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    Would you mind posting the link ?
     
  15. Tommy_0113

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  16. Uruvug

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    Dude, I am in a similar situation. I am 28, and have been masturbating to porn while being high because the whole thing is much more intense and the orgasms are amazing (I smoke weed about once a week though I've tried to reduce the use a bit). I would also do edging sessions of 30min - 1hr. During these weed-influenced-masturbations, my dick would get super hard. It was super intense, on another level. However, after doing this for a while I started to notice that it was more difficult to get hard even with porn. I also could not get it hard with three different girls that I tried to have sex with, and I must say that they were very attractive to me. I am on day 24 only, so maybe I can see how you do. After the first two weeks I noticed some morning woods, but now it feels like it's getting worse. What is funny, is that it has not been hard for me to reach day 24 either, and I don't feel horny right now so I know I can keep going without a problem. Maybe it's been easy because I have made up my mind that I'll do whatever it is necessary to get my sex life to normal again. I just don't want to be several months without having sex. I'll keep checking up on your results.

    Cheers
     
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  17. Markus_S

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    Yo man!

    Yep, it happened to me too. But in my case i smoked weed everyday in the evening at my friend's place, drove home, masturbated and fell asleep. And i got nice boners, but the problem was that, when i was sober during the day i had 0 libido. There was not a thing which could turn me on. So if you smoke weed once per week i would say that is no harm done. I quited weed 3 months ago.

    Day 75 - here i am. I can say that my life improve in: can make eye contact with anyone, less brain fog, improvement in erection (can definitly maintain longer + its a little bit harder). But i think i will need a lot more time to be cured :)
     
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  18. Kt kt

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    How is everything now? Asking that because today is my day 1
     

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