Letters to Cake; she's in a crisis

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  1. cakeinacrisis

    cakeinacrisis Fapstronaut

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    Phenomenal, isn't it?
    Hope your wife & family are holding up as well as possible..kids & I pray for y'all every night
     
  2. cakeinacrisis

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    SEE
     
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  3. GhostWriter

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    Thinking about you my lady! How ya holding up?
     
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  4. cakeinacrisis

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    It's a journey, my friend. Good days & bad...more good than bad as of late, & I'm relishing in them
    Thx for asking, ghost :)
     
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  5. cakeinacrisis

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    Dear Cake,

    6. The Law of Conscientious Action

    Simple; it's the golden rule you learned in kindergarten.

    Do to others, as you would have done to you.

    "Cold silence has a tendency to atrophy any sense of compassion between supposed lovers, between supposed brothers."
    -Maynard

    Oh, Cake. What another weird day. You stopped to get yourself a drink this morning on the way to drop kids off at school. When you held out the money to pay, the worker said "no charge" & smiled. The words "are you serious" stumbled out of your mouth before you could gather your senses & I'm sure your face had genuine shock written all over it. She smiled again & told you to have a good day.
    You made it maybe 10ft & started sobbing, the kids staring in bewilderment. You didn't hide your tears. You let them witness what kindness can do to a person. You explained that they were tears of joy; you were thankful and happy that kind people like that lady existed.
    Who knows if they understood the message, but their mother sure did.
     
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  6. GhostWriter

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    Amazing what simple kindness can do for the soul!
     
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  7. cakeinacrisis

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    It was a beautiful experience to have at this point in my life....
    Surprise kindness is the best kindness ;)
     
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  8. cakeinacrisis

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    Super stoked to start this; mostly for my kids to really know their mother.
    Their mother, as she's in the depths of rediscovering herself after betrayal.
    It's the blueprint to my bestselling novel.
    Goals.
     

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  9. cakeinacrisis

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    Dear Cake,

    7. Law of Gender

    There are elements of masculinity & femininity in each of us; in our mind body and soul. In nature. All around us. The universe itself has masculine & feminine sides. What makes it evolve, is having a balance between the two.

    Too much alpha makes for a narcissistic power hungry human that is nothing but a scared little child on the inside. Selfish.
    Too much beta & you get the opposite of narcissism.

    Find the balance.

    "The half-wise, recognizing the comparative unreality of the Universe, imagine that they may defy its Laws – such are vain and presumptions fools, and they are broken against the rocks and torn asunder by the elements by reason of their folly. The truly wise, knowing the nature of the Universe, use Law against laws; the higher against the lower; and by the Art of Alchemy transmute that which is undesirable into that which is worthy, and thus triumph. Mastery consists not in abnormal dreams, visions and fantastic imaginings or living, but in using the higher forces against the lower – escaping pains of the lower planes by vibrating on the higher. Transmutation, not presumptuous denial, is the weapon of the Master.”
     
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  10. cakeinacrisis

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    Reflecting on the 7 laws tonight via my main man, Maynard.

    Separate the body from the mind

     
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  11. Kenzi

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    I love the Fibonacci sequence I feel is underrated and underappreciated
     
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  12. cakeinacrisis

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    Keep spiraling outwards

    Underappreciated & fascinating.
     
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    Dear Cake,

    While kids were napping, you spent that money wisely. Invested in yours & the kids futures. Turning a hobby into a legit profession that will give the gift of memories to other happy humans & things...

    Paying it forward while getting paid.

    To do what you love.

    When you let the universe lead, opportunities come knocking at your door. You are living proof.

    These opportunities won't fill the emptiness from betrayal, but they will distract you. One day they'll distract you enough that you won't even think about the current situation(s) you find yourself in. The lonliness & utter confusion will be replaced by success.

    This isn't easy...The emotions and revelations you experience are debilitating at times.

    And then you remember, that you are the captain of your ship & you carry on, fully trusting God & his plan for you.

    Cheers to doors opening that will certainly lead to success; the kids will be proud & you will be, too.
     
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  14. Max Fisher

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    Good for you! Photos I assume?
     
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  15. cakeinacrisis

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    Yusssss.
    So stoked.
    Cards are falling into place, my friend :)
     
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  16. Trappist

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    Fibonacci sequence in Sunflowers.
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    Part of “The Smart Happy Project”.
    Whatever that is,
    it sounds like a good goal.
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