Let's do a 10-days-Challenge. Who wants to join?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Jodo Kus, May 5, 2017.

Most of us (I hope) will accomplish this Challenge in 3 days. So how do you want to continue?

Poll closed May 19, 2017.
  1. Let's do another one! Another 10-days-Challenge please.

    20 vote(s)
    57.1%
  2. I'm ready for a longer Challenge now.

    6 vote(s)
    17.1%
  3. I'm on a longer streak anyway. The length in days is not so important for me.

    2 vote(s)
    5.7%
  4. Thank you and goodbye.

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  5. 10 days were so hard for me, I need a controlled relapse before I'll take on another Challenge

    2 vote(s)
    5.7%
  6. People here have many different numbers of days. Therefor let's just be there for each other

    5 vote(s)
    14.3%
  1. claretmad

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    Day 10 coming to a close. Another monked day like yesterday. Hitting the double digits is a great feeling, one of optimism and determination.
    Unfortunately, it hasn't been a perfect 10 days, but just because I didn't monk it doesn't mean I haven't progressed.

    It's the weekend now boys, definitely the most dangerous.
     
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  2. Rob_theArtist

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    Day 5, I had a lustful dream last night, I had to keep myself busy throughout the day to fight these urges
     
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  3. Bhaskar baswala

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  4. want to be free

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    Im feeling out of control guys
     
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  5. Will_power_now

    Will_power_now Fapstronaut

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    It's weekend guys, let's not fall into our addiction. Let's overcome these two days without pmo!

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  6. TheDarkKnight

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    I am aiming for a 7-day streak right now. I want to do this!
     
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  7. _overcomer_

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    Have a good Saturday and stay strong :)
     
  8. Woodchester

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    I'm on day 7 in total. Had strong urges earlier in the week, but they've diminished now and I'm not finding it a problem. Hope this continues. Good luck to everyone.
     
  9. tom16

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    1 hour away from finishing day 5 - urges are high at the moment but just trying to think about the smile on my face when I complete this challenge.
     
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  10. Maddey

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    I'm in.....i have not PMO for a few days(check Counter) but i will take up the 10 day challenge and try to go more.
     
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  11. tom16

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    About 30 mins ago I was as well. Came so close to failing but I managed to stay strong - watched a couple videos on the nofap benefits and now I'm determined again.
     
  12. Woodchester

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    Despite me saying a few hours ago that my urges had 'diminished', I just went for a long walk (healthy, right?) and found my mind occupied with the stuff that gets me aroused. Ended up with a semi that stuck around for ages and pants full of pre-cum. Quite uncomfortable and slightly embarrassing, but no harm done and I can laugh about it now. At least those thoughts were just in my head and didn't get any further.
     
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  13. Second_chance

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    This is my third day, god it feels long. My top time was 7 days. I have some urges from time to time, but I think it's better to stay away of any trigger. And keep the mind focus by doing stuff. Beign alone in your room can be hard as fuck
     
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  14. ReallyGreatPizza

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    Oh! Just saw this and I happen to be on my first 10th day in a row since I started trying to quit. The official challenge may have started on the 8th so not everyone is there yet, but I know it's possible! I spent 18 years addicted to porn and tried countless times to beat it, you can break the 7 or even 10 day mark. You just have to have a real, tangible reason to quit in your mind. Sometimes the idea and promise of your life getting better isn't quite enough. It can literally be anything, I think mine is kind of dumb. I missed an opportunity to be intimate with a really amazing woman because I was shy, afraid, and most importantly lacked real sexual motivation. I found out later she liked me and had I made a move it would have gone over splendidly. I wear a bracelet she gave, which has become a lot of things to me, including a reminder of why I know I need to quit porn. It's dumb, but it's gotten me through more consecutive days of recovery than I've managed to pull off before, so I'm not going to discount it's impact.

    Just find any real reason you can, and try and get some physical reminder of it that you can use to pull you back to a grounded state of mind whenever you feel like it's not worth it, or you're too weak, or worst of all that YOU'RE not worth it. We can do it!
     
  15. tom16

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    I failed :-( still proud of 5 days but now I'm on another forum aiming for 15. I'll still stay in this one to hit the 10 day mark.

    Feel like I never want to watch porn again. When you can think about it subjectively it's absolutely revolting. Crazy how different your brain works when it's after that instant gratification/dopamine rush.
     
  16. Jodo Kus

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    That's true. This time you'll be stronger!

    Yesterday evening I focused on not relapsing. So it was a difficult evening. Not proactive not productive but clean.
    Today it's much better
     
  17. KrmGrn

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    My relapses always happen when I'm home alone. When my girlfriend is here or I'm not in my apartment, I have no problems.

    This is day 2. I won't have a problem making it until tomorrow morning. But there's a window of time between waking up and going to work tomorrow where I have to be vigilant.
     
  18. tom16

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    Thanks mate - good luck!
     
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  19. Addicted0087

    Addicted0087 Fapstronaut

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    Day 3 . I will complete this challenge :) All the best everyone !
     
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  20. Second_chance

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    Yes it's crazy how when our brain percieves instant gratification, you enter like in a zombie mode and can't think clearly you only want it. At that point it's ultra difficult to not relapse. I think the key it's not to be even close to those things that arouse you and when you see something that does it. Run away and to other stuff to distract you. I used to lie myself doing things like "oh i will see just one picture to see if nothings happens" thats just a trap your brain sets! Run away!!
    And we all relapse sometime, what it matters it's to get back on track!
     

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