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lesbian addiction

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by draco07, Nov 2, 2013.

  1. Nov 2, 2013 #1
    draco07

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    Hello guys, I'm from Brasil. I know, I know, but I didn't find a forum about and I met this one, so I hope you can help me.
    Also I hope to help you, if you need. Well, here we go...
    I am 19 years old. When I was in my fifth school year (11 years old), I met the pornography in a website of pictures of woman and biquini. huasuas
    Yeah, in that time I never had watched a fucking scene, you know. Just pictures about woman. Few months later I watched my first porn movie in a friend's house, and accidentally, it was about lesbian sex. There was a scene of two woman fucking theirself and in the end you could watch them making tribadism. Man... That makes me so crazy uahuasa.
    Well, the years elapse... And my addiction is still alive.
    Today I have a girlfriend and my problem is when we have sex, I just came to the orgasm thinking her having lesbian sex. And in the end I think I am not feeling a real desire. I'm tired, every night I have to watch a new scene about lesbian sex with tribbing action. It is almost a "carma" before sleep. I want to feel a real desire for my girlfriend (man... sometimes when we have sex I ask her to us make a tribbing position). I'm sick, I know and I need help... Of course, the forum isn't about it, but you can help me if you write me about how to stop to masturbate every night... Is a beginning...

    Best wishes, draco07
     
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  2. Nov 2, 2013 #2
    CasualMe95

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    Every person has their own story.
    You're no different from any of us.
    Were all here because we feel like there is something in out life that needs a change, whether its lesbian, fetish, gay, wife etc.

    First of all, if you haven't already, I think you should tell your girlfriend about it. She'll love you for being honest. Sure she might think its crazy and absurd and get angry with you but the good thing about porn and sexuality is that you can actually remove it from your daily life. Unlike smoking, drugs etc porn doesn't leave markets on (or in) your body.

    I think you should stop looking at naked women completely except from your girlfriend. Another person on this forum told me that he was able to have great sex with hes wife by maintaining eye contact throughout the entire sex. Maybe you should try that.

    About stop masturbating, I suggest you to stop watching porn or try to stop fantasizing about naked women for one day. That should probably reduce some of the horniness and prevent you from masturbating one evening.

    You have to start somewhere, try different things that might help you block the sexual thoughts.
    Begin with the small stuffs. Like no porn for one evening. Yes you may have a hard time to sleep that night but you're not masturbating or watching any nudity. Which (in my opinion) is a direction in the right way.

    Good luck and I hope you find a way to deal with it! ;)
     
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  3. Nov 3, 2013 #3
    slip_kid

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    Arrgh! I didn't even know the meaning of 'tribadism' so I clicked draco07's link... bad idea. Need a cold shower now.

    Wishing you best of luck draco07 with your goal - you're on the right track, and first step is to admit to yourself it's a real issue.

    But you might want to consider removing the Wiki link. Links invite clicking, and it's not really what most of us need to see right now :)
     
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  4. Nov 4, 2013 #4
    Fapstroknot

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    Haha remove that link wtf
     
    Fapstroknot, Nov 4, 2013
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  5. Nov 25, 2013 #5
    draco07

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    I'm sorry guys about the link, I think I made the things be worse. hahahah I realy didn't think about that. Thank everyone by the words. Well, I'm tryinng and I started to be one day-three days without it. Is a little begin, but that's all I can for now. Another thing is helping me. My feelings about my girlfriend. I think I want that girl my wife and my son's mother. I can attack her mind like that, so finally I'm having a normal sex. Once again, sorry about everything and for enter here so late. I don't have much time because the college. Best wishes.
     
    draco07, Nov 25, 2013
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