JW looking for a partner or small group

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by Beatenyethopeful, Dec 29, 2016.

  1. LakeLand

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    Can I ask what happened? How do you keep yourself busy?
     
  2. Mtired

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    I have a problem sleeping, every night I wake up around 1:00 am and it's really difficult to get back to sleep so that's when I'm at my weakest point. All kind of negative thoughts flood my head and sometimes to relieve them I just view porn.
     
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  4. Little_valley

    Little_valley New Fapstronaut

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    Hey man, i am a Jw from Australia just started as well. It is comforting to know that there are others out their with the same stuggles as myself!
     
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  5. The Blue Ocean

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    Hey! Can I join? :)
    I am on day 16 or 17 right now, and I DON'T want to fail! Last time weird thought - because I just said to myself that I accept this defeat... (...Say what...? :S ). It shall never be repeated!

    Let's fullfil our goals! :D
     
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  6. Jojo man

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    @Mtired watchu can do as the thought emerges specially @1 in the morning is IMMEDIATELY drop down on the flow and do as much PUSH UPS as you can, while throwing your phone or laptop out of your reach. Try that and let me know how it goes for you.
     
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  7. Mtired

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    Thanks man I'm gonna try that.
     
  8. Jojo man

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    Yea for me I work at night and every morning before I get off, I get a rush of hormones and before I sleep i usually do about 100 push-ups while listening to music and make sure I don't go sleep with my phone, this is day 6 for me I got 24 left, I'm still trying to look for ways to replace some of these bad habits with
     
  9. LakeLand

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    My boss let me go home earlier. I've just entered an empty house. I'm aware that's a moment of vulnerability.

    @Mtired you're not by yourself now. Reject any tempting thoughts instantly. Don't discuss with it. Have an emergency plan. Good luck, man.
     
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  10. Jojo man

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    That's good statement, I never heard of q-studio before??
     
  11. JWwantsalife

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  12. Mtired

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    I'm on day 4 now, still counting. 26 more days to go and I'm feeling more determined than ever to continue.
     
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  13. Mtired

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    I'm trying almost everything I can. I find myself viewing porn whenever I use the bathroom so I started leaving my phone outside whenever I'm going in there. Since recently I'm spending less time on my phone, now I start leaving it somewhere else whenever I'm in the bedroom.
    It's also good to reflect on all the harm pmo has caused you and how beneficial it would be to give it up.
    It's important to find things to do especially when you're at home, like some chores around the house or suppim, even playing video games if you find reading to be a little boring.
    I'm going movie free for a month or two cause sometimes even movies can be a trigger for me; kissing and all that can send me right back into pmo. Just try to identify all your triggers because when you are aware of them it will be easier to take steps to avoid them. I've taken some weird steps to avoid some of my triggers but I just laugh at them after a while.
     
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  14. Shuriken

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    You doing a great job. I also like my phone away from me especially when I start lying in bed. The temptation is too much to resist and I do not want to fail!
     
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  15. JammyPhantom

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    Hi guys, brand new here, I'm a JW MS and would be happy to help as an accountability partner. Struggled for abotu 20 years but only recently come to the conclusion of how damaging P/M can be.
     
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  16. Are any of you still using this forum?
    Are you still using this forum?
     
  17. Are any of you still using this forum?
     
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  18. theBiggestDream

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    I don't think anybody is, but I have a Discord server with a few JWs on it if you're interested.
    DM me if you want an invite.
     
  19. I'm So Over This

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    Sorry, I just joined and I'm not sure how to DM you. How old are most of the people on the Discord Seever?
     
  20. i_wanna_get_better1

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    Welcome to the site @I'm So Over This . You can send a direct private message (DM) by going to your inbox or your 'conversations' if you're using a phone. I recently sent you a message.
     
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