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Just Joined, Any Advice would be great

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by jkae.22, Feb 1, 2019.

  1. jkae.22

    jkae.22 Fapstronaut

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    Hi, so I just made this account because I want to better my life. I’ve been watching porn and masterbating ever since I was about 12 years old. I’m 20 now and for the past 4 years I literally can barely go a day without doing it. The longest I’ve remembered I’ve gone without it was a week I believe. My self control is at an all time low and I’m just seeking some guidance in this aspect in my life, as I’m ashamed to tell anyone face to face. This has affected all of my sexual encounters with girls, becoming that I can’t even get hard without watching porn or touching myself. It is the most embarrassing and degrading feeling I’ve ever felt, making my self confidence stoop to the lowest point possible. I just need some sort of help, or somebody to lean on. I aspire to do great things and I’ve knocked down all of the barriers holding me back besides this one. If anyone of you have some sort of advice you could give me or words of encouragement, it would be MUCH appreciated.

    Thank You
     
  2. TheProcedure

    TheProcedure Fapstronaut

    @jkae.22 welcome to the site man.

    your experience of hitting this sort of rock bottom is common man. and a lot of us have been or are going through that.

    my advice bro is to really get engaged with this community. start your own journal in the Ages 20-24 section of the forums, introduce yourself to fellow new fapstronauts, read through the Success Stories section of the forums, and things like that.

    also, be patient with yourself. Rome wasn't built in a day. this addiction - the enemy - is trying to create doubt in whatever ways it can. don't buy into the lies that you can't do this or it's impossible to break it. The Success Stories have some amazing incredible even unbelievable stories of how some people overcame this dark addiction. Be encouraged! One day at a time, controlling your thoughts little by little, observing them and watching them vigilantly are the keys to success.

    be selfless and care for others.

    i wish you the best my G ! let's do this
     
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  3. jkae.22

    jkae.22 Fapstronaut

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    I appreciate it my guy, I’ve never done anything like this or ever seeked help before because I’ve always thought I could handle this on my own. It’s cool to see a whole community that it’s going through the relatively same thing is me and it’s super comforting. I’ll take your advice for sure, thanks for giving me some council. I’m ready to go
     

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