Just Broke Up With Girlfriend

Hey guys I'd like to introduce myself to this group as I have just broken up with my girlfriend and will need all the support I can get. First off let me tell you a little about myself. My name is Daniel and I am 26 years old. I love to play music, chess, exercise, and I enjoy school where I am studying psychology. I have mostly identified as a loner and have some pride in that but realize it is not always good. We sometimes all need support and care. I started my latest reboot challenge without watching porn around Nov.22, so it is around day 33. This was probably my fourth try and did not last more then 10 days on the previous challenges. I have been watching porn since I could masturbate.

The girl I broke up with was great but I believe that this was the best thing for both of us. I feel like I would become upset with her for little things and want to be controlling. I feel like this behavior was not good for me or her. I realize I have to work on myself before I hurt other people with insensitivity. I feel that we can use this break up to propel each of us to greater heights in life and also prepare ourselves to deal with loss which tends to occur more commonly as you age. This may sound crazy but I have been terrible with past breakups and have not found a solution to deal with the disappearance of someone who was so close to you.

Please give me a shout. I would also like to say to hang in there guys, you are not alone! Back in the dog house where us wolves like to call home.

 

I'm already crazy. Psychology helps me understand myself and others better which makes me at least feel sane. I think bad health, spirituality, and problems can be helped independently with a 6 mile jog, no stopping. You learn a lot about yourself. Take up an instrument. All girls are sexual beings as we men are because sex is enjoyable for both men and women. Also I believe that there are good people in every religion because religion calls to the good in people, just some people exploit that. I recently quit drinking to avoid these types of relationships. Thanks for the post. Made me question some important topics.

 

Thank you! Yea, this is actually my first time initiating a break up. Always have been the one to receive the news after a downward spiral in the relationship that should be evident. I think this is a healthy step in my development as a person and it will be tough but in a way I think NoFap has helped me when it comes to dealing with spare time that results in a positive change. I feel like I can make it through this with strong will and the support and awareness of others in similar situations.