[Journal]Rebuilding myself

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by paruva mattram, Feb 9, 2019.

  1. paruva mattram

    paruva mattram Fapstronaut

    Hi guys, after starting NO PMO, i have decided to bring discipline to other aspects of my life as well. As per Maxwell Malts it takes 21 days to form a habit. I dont know if its the exact number; So the next 21 days iam going to force myself to do the following activities.
    1)Getting up at 5am.
    2)Meditating and brain dumping for 30 minutes.
    3)Cycling for 30 minutes.
    I hope that these habits stick with me.⚡️
     
  2. Chappo030891

    Chappo030891 Fapstronaut

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    thats awesome, man! Cycling is a great exercise! Keep it going! BTW I didnt realise I already surpassed my likes limit (50 likes in 12 hours) ....so I give u a super like!!!
     
  3. paruva mattram

    paruva mattram Fapstronaut

    Day 1.
    Starting these habits today.⚡️
     
  4. WretchedBoy

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    Great plans! Looking forward to hear about your experiences!
     
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  5. paruva mattram

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    Thanks...i will
     
  6. paruva mattram

    paruva mattram Fapstronaut

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    Day 1 was fantastic. Completed the tasks and enjoyed myself. Hope i getup at 5 tomorrow. The above pic is a stretch of road i cycled. It was sublime.
     
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  7. paruva mattram

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    Day 2 phew...Getting up at 5 am was tough as my body was tired from yesterdays cycling,but i managed to get the task done. I hope my body gets accustomed to getting up early. I always had a wish to excel in pullups, so started to do it along with cycling today. As usual cycling is great; i breathe more, my body gets rid of excess tension and i feel good. Hope to make it a permanent habit without putting conscious effort.
     
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  8. WretchedBoy

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    Nice one. I´m here and waiting for more good news, keep it up ;)
     
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  9. paruva mattram

    paruva mattram Fapstronaut

    Thanks.
     
  10. Lordofthewings

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    That is awesome i woke up at 5 am and started my streak from day 1 waking up at 5 am is tough but it builds a warrior so good luck my friend and keep moving forward!
     
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  11. paruva mattram

    paruva mattram Fapstronaut

    I get a sense of achievement when i get up at 5am. It boosts morale and makes me feel its not another loser day.
     
  12. paruva mattram

    paruva mattram Fapstronaut

    Focusing on my tasks helps me to control my urges. Hopes of a better tomorrow fills my heart and is healing me.
     
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  13. Casper400

    Casper400 Fapstronaut

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    A little motivation!



    1:30-1:45. When you’re about to Fap but knock Mr. Resistance on his back! For me, I believe my ability to find the right girl is improved thru NoFap, both on the acedotal phenomen of a vastly increased level of attention from women during non-PMO streaks + feeling more confident/disciplined, better man, and meeting a woman’s values + reaping what I sew [good works do not go unnoticed and good things happen to good people]. So I relate to this directly as man’ing up for my angel

    Happy Valentines Day boys and girls! ❤️
     
  14. Casper400

    Casper400 Fapstronaut

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    Right on. No Fapping helps you to develop confidence in your ability to be and develop discipline. Solid plan!
     
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  15. paruva mattram

    paruva mattram Fapstronaut

    Day 5. Over. It has finally dawned on me the goal i must achieve. Till this day it has been blurred by my thirst for instant gratification, laziness and the absence of self care of my mind, body and spirit. I have found my fire which i once thought was lost forever. All these times i have been searching for it only to find it hidden from me by my own non-chalance attitude. I thank the NOFAP community for helping me rediscover my fire. I hope to continue these tasks and excel myself
     
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  16. paruva mattram

    paruva mattram Fapstronaut

    7 whole days. Completed the tasks. Moving to the next week.⚡️
     
  17. paruva mattram

    paruva mattram Fapstronaut

    Today is a bummer. Couldn’t wakeup at 5:00 am. When i started i never realised how intricately the no fapping and my daily tasks are tied up together. Iam feeling low today and the urge to relapse has become higher. But i willnot succumb to my urges. I’ll be strong.⚡️
     
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  18. Muphy

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    Yes it will work but dont be hard on yourself. Do it in a calm way. and youll achieve it. if you miss one day, dont criticize yourself. Just dont miss it the next day. Because while starting we start with full enthusiasm and slowly it fades away. So be calm and slowly pursue your goal.

    I am on day 21 without PMO and I just remain calm and have a belief that its no big deal, it can be done. And I dont think about it much. This way it becomes easier.
     
  19. paruva mattram

    paruva mattram Fapstronaut

    Thanks mate!
     
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  20. Muphy

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    Also the more ahead yiugo, it's going to be difficult.. more urges... But then a time will come where it's going to go down drastically.
    It's just some time where you really need to control.
     
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