Hi there, I am the SO of an excessive Porn Addict cons - He is also having affairs and going to brothels regularly. Just last week I found out about an affair he had.. And faced him. He admitted excessive Porn usage, regular meetings with prostitutes, using the blue pills and having affairs with his secretaries. I am devastated. We have two young kids. A wonderful family. Unfortunately we have been there a few years ago - I found out about an affair.. He had prostitutes and affairs and heavy Porn usage.. And he wanted to stop it all, so he wouldn't lose me. I agreed and he did psychotherapy but started slowly but surely with Porn again.. Then prostitutes and also having affairs with his secretaries. For 3 years he was doing this now in the second sequel. I am so tired, so wounded. I feel so hollow. It's really bad and hurts me so much. We have a wonderful family, an active and adventurous love life, two super kids. I am an attractive and sexy Partner, Open minded, we had a lot of variety and fun. It is so bad now.. I feel devastated. With my husband he said: When he feels stressed, has anxiety or fears.. He is escaping in hours of Porn usage or going to brothels after office. And having affairs with secretaries.. All to keep his thought from any irrational fears. It's so crazy. We have a wonderful life, everything a man can dream of. And he is risking it all because of this SHIT. I want to vomit. Don't know what to do now.