it’s getting worse ! and need help!

In my case, Im not agree with hardmode.
I think that we need to find someone to get laid. Thats the way to have no urges.
Thats the way to rewire better.
Note that I said "someone to get laid" and not "to be a partner, girlfriend, boyfriend, etc".
I mean c,mon, theres always other people who wants to party.

 

People are incredibly intricate - there are many monsters inside us that we are battling to keep at bay.

These manifestations of desire are not bisexual per se - sexuality is fluid. But it might be a manifestation of your subconscious needs. That is something to think about. I do not believe you are straight - or bi. But these thoughts are a crystalization of a larger unmet need.

 

Maybe you are bi maybe it's porn induced. To be honest I'm not sure there is a difference. You should stop watching all porn and maybe your fetishes will go away. Couldn't hurt.

 

getting away from porn will help every problem, try that first

 

sounds like you're getting bored of the same old P and looking for more aggressive alternatives. you may not be BI but jsut bored of the same shit.. keep off the P and you will see what happens. only time will tell"

 

Whatever you do, please don’t give in. The pain of abstaining from what you’re unnaturally attracted to will be extremely challenging to cope with. The false intimacy you’ve had with these pixels may appeal to you for the rest of your life. But if you want true freedom, entertaining those fantasies in any capacity is pointless. I’m struggling with similar sexual confusion and can tell you that your past can stay in the past! Don’t turn back!!

 

Go play some non erotic video games, I reccomend dragons dogma. The worst you’ll get is scantily clad women.
Take a cold shower and go for a walk.
Listen to the Album, “The will to power” by arch enemy.

 

Well said my friend I too am struggling with this in my life. But we must keep fighting

 

Right on the money. You got this!!

 

Thanks so much, I appreciate that! Let’s keep taking heart and pressing on into victory!! We can make it out.