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Is this a relapse?

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Nooneknows2003, Mar 26, 2017.

  1. Nooneknows2003

    Nooneknows2003 Fapstronaut

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    Im 7 days into no porn, no cybersex and NoFap, and was feeling really horny and wanted sex with my gf.

    However in order to get aroused enough to have sex I had to touch myself as she touched herself before we then did it.

    Is this a relapse given that I couldn't get hard automatically but needed my own manual help? Or do I get a pass because it was only a means to get to have real sex? And didn't involve any porn or cybersex?

    As it has been a few weeks since we've had sex cos I've been dealing with terrible ED I think that this is a 'natural' first step between the virtual and the real or am I just fooling myself?
     
  2. Kolbe

    Kolbe Fapstronaut

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    I would not treat it as a relapse; however, take it as a sign that you do need to commit to rebooting, as self stimulation in order to properly have sex is not normal.

    Take it from me, you will heal much faster if you do a hardmode reboot. I find that everytime I O with my girlfriend it sets me back, and I'm on day 118! Don't dwell on whether or not you relapsed, as rebooting is not a linear process whatsoever.

    Good luck!
     

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