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Is this a relapse or bad? GUILT

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by IggyIshness, Feb 26, 2017.

  1. IggyIshness

    IggyIshness Fapstronaut

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    So i went to record CSGO with my friend and In the game on the top of the screen it shows profile pics which, of course, Was a picture of a woman's naked ass. Of course what else can it fucking be? I had to deal with that shit for an hour. After a minute i put a cloth over the screen to cover it. But i still saw it a lot in statistics. I haven't felt any dopamine rushes, I didn't look at it with the thought in mind to pleasure myself, and I didn't give into it. Relapse? When im editing the vid im cutting that shit out. I'm feeling guilty and also pissed with my 300 day not using porn streak. I'm feeling guilty HELP.
     
  2. Fap_Doc

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    It's a relapse I'm afraid. Hang in there.
     
  3. HappyDaysAreHereAgain

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    I think you could go a bit easier on yourself. EepYou didn't look for it, you didn't get excited, you covered it up. That sounds like you are still on the right track. When it popped up, if you had said, "YES!", then you would need to have reset and washed your eyes out with ivory soap.
    Now, go to bed early and sleep it off.
     
  4. JamesWarrior

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    Simply, no. It isn't a relapse. The world is full of sexual imagery, part of recovery is learning to accept and be at peace with this. Let it go and move on.
     
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  5. IggyIshness

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    ..what?
     
  6. Steve Sancteria

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    you can call it what you want but certainly not a relapse.
    Sometimes you see naked women in magazines which lay around (newspaper have ton of this shiet), advertisment etc.

    It doesn´t have a medusa effect, where you instantly relapse only cause you´ve seen it.
    Rather take it as A PROOF THAT YOU ARE GOING STRONG, cause you had to view this thing for a long time and you didn´t freak out in your mind, I most probably would have relapsed to urges.

    Relapse is if you do: PORN on purpose, MASTURBATION on purpose, ORGASM on purpose.
     
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  7. IggyIshness

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    I was actually really pissed when it popped up for the match.
     
  8. Steve Sancteria

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    I think you take it "too serious"

    don´t get me wrong, you certainly have to take it serious on a certain degree, but I guess you get some kind of a paranoia on getting triggered and relapse, but I think to proper way to handle triggers is to kind of notice them and then just ignore them like it´s something you don´t give a damn about.

    So next time, just relax, you can´t expect that everyone knows about NoFap, if an ass pops up, notice it and then focus the important stuff
     
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  9. JamesWarrior

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    I agree with Steve Sancteria. Another point I'd like to add is, why do you think a womans ass is sexual at all? It is simply an ass, a part of the body that is made of fat, muscle, veins, blood, skin. See it for what it is, it is no different than a mans ass or a camels ass. Desexualise and get back to reality.
     
  10. IggyIshness

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    Wheres the logic behind that?
     
  11. HappyDaysAreHereAgain

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    Have a great week with your studies.
    Stay strong. Unless you join a monastery, there is no way to avoid all sightings of good looking women. You can always avoid staring and drooling. You're doing great at looking away. Keep it up.
     
  12. legolas_01

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    NO IT IS NOT A RELAPSE. It is a trap from your brain. You know when you think you've relapsed, you are like "I am gonna do it for real because I relapsed anyway". NO YOU DID NOT RELAPSE. It happened to me many times! You still have all the benefits as long as you did not watch porn with the intention of fapping (and if there is pre-seminal liquide coming out from your penis (it is my personal rule))
     
  13. IggyIshness

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    In my 113 day reboot i actually edged a lot and still had really good benefits. I wouldn't think this would make any difference.
     

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