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Is masturbation wrong for girls?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Cry45434, May 25, 2018.

  1. Cry45434

    Cry45434 New Fapstronaut

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    Most of what I read on here is from guys. I’m a girl and find myself unable to stop enjoying masturbation.

    It started when I was 12 or 13 yo. Both my parents worked and I was a latch key kid at that age. One day I was snooping in my parents room looking for Xmas gifts. What I found under the bed was a big box of dirty movies. I remember being grossed out seeing the images on the boxes I saw. It was maybe a couple weeks that went by and I couldn’t stop thinking about it. So I went back in their bedroom after school again and started going through them. Almost all of the boxes showed white girls with naked black men.

    I knew almost nothing about sex then. I never seen a guy naked before outside of changing diapers on my babysitting jobs. I kept thinking about those boxes and one night while rubbing myself I experienced my first orgasm. It scared the heck out of me but I really liked how it felt. Since that night, I would rush home after school and look at mom and dads dirty movie boxes and masturbate. I remember getting the nerve up to actually play one of the movies. That’s when I learned I could have multiable orgasms. I did this to the day I moved out of the house.

    I would lay in bed at night thinking about one of my parents movies when I would hear a familiar movie sound playing in mom and dads room. They were watching a dirty move together! Then I heard my moms voice moaning. They were having sex! I noticed this several times a week. I guess I heard this stuff before but never knew what was going on before.

    Now that I’m older, I still masturbate once or twice a day to interracial pornographic material. I have my own collection and everything. Just like my parents. Is it so wrong? My live in bf doesn’t seem to mind and even masturbates with me sometimes. Am I a freak or should I go see a doctor? It’s time consuming but it feels really good. Is feeling good so bad?
     
  2. Gotham Outlaw

    Gotham Outlaw Fapstronaut

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    Pornography is bad for everyone. As someone who used to fap once or twice a day I can say I'm much better off now. I have so much more energy, mental clarity, and I'm more interested in things. There's no need for you to see a doctor, and no you're not a freak. The issue isn't feeling good it's feeling good from an artificial stimulant, which leads people to become overly reliant on said stimulant.
     
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  3. Unable to stop. It's bad for you. Any compulsive behaviour isn't "good". Doesn't make you a freak, or mean you should see a doctor.

    Porn is bad for everyone. Brains work fundamentally the same way; what you learn watching porn is just bad. There's a feedback loop to it and it doesn't build up your health. Are you, while watching porn or masturbating becoming who you want to be? Pleasure is misleading in our day and age—junk food tastes good but it's terrible for you.

    Pretty much what @Rick C-137 said.
     
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  4. Oppypoppy

    Oppypoppy New Fapstronaut

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    I think it's normal. I'm playing with my penis from age of 4-5. I masturbate not every day, but when I am in a bathroom I can make it 3-4 times.
    I am sure that people, that say they are not masturbating, actually masturbate more then we both together.
    So, some are masturbating, some have sex, some do it on the camera. In each situation it's great
    I recommend a book 'Guide to get it on' writen by Paul Joannides
     
  5. Maybe you learn something useful from these video porn is not your best friend and will never be it will only consume you and turn you in to a looser
    You and your boyfriend need to change your minds about porn if not it will affect your relationship

    PORN HARMS





     
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  6. It is wrong for you if it causes you problems.

    Although most of the people here are guys, women have these problems to: if you want to stop, there is a section here for women who have these problems. It is here: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?forums/women-in-reboot.22/

    Women can be adversely affected. You decrease your sensitivity to physical stimulation, and to normal mental stimulation (that is, by being with a person, as opposed to watching porn) when you watch porn and masturbate to it.

    Is sex with your BF frequent and good? (At 19, it should be.) Can you reach orgasm from sex with your BF? Do you need/want to think of porn while having sex with him? Is the sex about caring and intimacy, or is it just about you "getting off"?

    Although it sounds like you have not developed serious issues yet, this is a progressive thing: the longer you watch, the worse it gets.

    That is not a good sign. It is a very bad thing if porn is causing you problems (it may not be yet in your case; only you can answer that).

    For example, many/most people find themselves getting bored with their initial genre of porn, and progressively moving to kinkier forms, some of which would have previously repulsed them.
     
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