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Is it necessary ?

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Karaa_, Nov 3, 2018.

  1. Karaa_

    Karaa_ Fapstronaut

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    I've been dating someone lately, we've been friend for 2 years and she is my junior , i know her well like she knows me well, but i hid something from her, yep i didn't tell her im rebooting here,

    Should i tell her the truth ?
    In my country even kissing is taboo so i have to wait till marriage comes

    Sorry for bad english
     
  2. lamstronger

    lamstronger Fapstronaut

    I feel like it isn't necessary for you to tell her this.
     
  3. Karaa_

    Karaa_ Fapstronaut

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    is that so ?
    thanks anyway
     
  4. JKnight

    JKnight Fapstronaut

    I think that you need to do a bit of a cost/benefit analysis here. The price of telling her now vs the cost of telling her later when the relationship has developed. Obviously cultural elements must be taken into account. Make a list of the pros and cons of both scenarios and see which scenario wins. That would be the simple format I would use when deciding if it is necessary to disclose now.
     
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  5. Ridley

    Ridley Fapstronaut

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    I think full disclosure to your partner is very important, and I think that it's necessary if you want a lasting, loving relationship that is build on honesty and trust.

    Having said that, it's not necessary to tell her everything right away. I don't know how serious your relationship with her is, but I think the longer the two of you are together, the more of a burden it will be to hide this information from her.

    So, I think you should tell her about your reboot, but I think you should use your best judgment about the time and setting in which you want to do that.
     
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  6. Meditation Monk

    Meditation Monk Fapstronaut

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    lol, it is up to you bud
     
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