Is Femdom making me gay?

You will have to quit porn and maybe masturbation too. The thing is when you are on a streak of not watching porn the brain is slowly rewiring and getting used to lower levels of dopamine. Even a little porn which can arouse you will give your brain a surge of dopamine. Believe me, dopamine is one of those things for which your brain would do anything that you most likely wont do, like being attracted to the same sex. (Here iam not focusing on anyone's sexual preferences which are naturally developed but alteration of sexual preferences due to porn).
If deep in your mind you know that you are straight than don't let virtual things like porn affect you. I can say this through similar experiences, I was into extreme stuffs of porn but quitting porn and masturbation has made me clear about my views and sexual preferences.
I Hope you find Your answers.
Good Luck!

 

There is no relation between gay and femdom. If you mean BDSM generally then yes. But in femdom is being attracted to female's domination (sadism) .

In my opinion wether a person is into female or male sadist this won't make him a gay because he she are approaching the fantasy itself. Just don't put these ideas in your mind. Stopping pmo will reduce such fantasies.

 

probably yes man. Quite now

 

Pornography in general will make you weak and effeminate - and yes you are programming yourself with homosexual themes. You've set up a negative feedback loop.

 

Yes, it's emasculating.

 

How does not kissing a woman make you a loser? That sounds like a false, limiting belief. I don't have real sex to fall back on but it doesn't cause me to want to look at porn. You are the one making all these chains, and these chains cause you to stay bound to porn. PMO severs you from the thing you desire most - how does indulging yourself like this increase your chances of intimacy with another woman?

 

It's a porn escalation, it happens. As far as making you gay, no, femdom is still with a female.
To get grounded again and back to where you want to be you will to get away from porn.

 

Pornography will trigger your brain into sexual perversion in general. Even though you are not gay, it will lead you to find sexual pleasure in gay stuff, because straight stuff is no longer stimulating because it's not extreme enough. This happens to almost every porn addict and causes confusion, depression and anxiety like crazy. I am not attracted to men at all, and I have jerked to gay porn before. It's just the toxic thing porn does to our brains, has it seek out more and more extreme to derive pleasure. Nofap, rebooting the mind will reset you back to the "factory settings" and the sexually perverted stuff will go away..

 

It makes you effeminate and emasculates your personality and you program yourself to seek sensuality and sex solely for the sake of pleasure, which is a sign of homosexuality... which I would consider to be any perversion of the original purpose of sex. So it doesn't matter if it's female on female, this is what porn does in general, it makes you depraved.

 

A hallmark of something does not make you that thing, it's just a hallmark. Are you insinuating that everyone seeking sexuality and sex for sake of pleasure is gay? Really?

 

I guess I'm doing the same thing you are doing while criticizing you for doing it, but does everyone have to be attacked for expressing a view? Let whoever say their piece. People can believe and should be able to say whatever they like. The constant attacking and policing[ not saying you do it, I only saw your one post, just in general] of what people say is annoying, pathetic, hateful and harmful to society in general.

I don't know how people can think they are tolerant and about acceptance when they constantly attack viewpoints that are unlike their own. And no viewpoints that are not your own are not hateful or intolerant by default. That is the dogma of intolerance, oppression, and control over your fellow man

 

I agree with your view. It just bothers me when someone is struggling with who they are or may be and are basically told they are something, which isn't necessarily true. This kind of talk can push people farther in a dark place.
What I replied wasn't so much an attack as much as something to promote thought.

 

I'm sorry for what you're experiencing but PMO just makes your plight more intense and painful - it will not increase your chances of being with someone and it will make your life a hell of isolation and misery, you will never reach your full potential until you let it go. What others get to experience is immaterial and it should not lead you down the path you're letting it. Maybe letting go of envying what others possess will help loosen your chains.

 

I would think so because you are divorcing sex from it's purpose and making it solely about seeking pleasure and this leads to more and more depravity. So yes, this path of depravity is much different that the path of covenant love, union and procreation between two members of the opposite sex.

 

How? I don't recall attacking anyone, I don't know you, you don't know me. There are two usages of sex, one is according to it's intended purpose and it leads to fruitfulness. The other is an abuse, and it leads to spiritual death and spiraling depravity. What is harmful to society is when someone doesn't acknowledge the truth. I said,

"It makes you effeminate and emasculates your personality and you program yourself to seek sensuality and sex solely for the sake of pleasure, which is a sign of homosexuality... I would consider any perversion of the original purpose of sex to be homosexual to one degree or another. Homosexuality divorces the procreative component of sex from its original intent for the sake of pleasure, so do the math. So it doesn't matter if it's female on female, this is what porn does in general, it makes you depraved."

Homosexuality is an abuse of the original purpose of sex - dispute that if you please, but I won't change reality.

 

Sorry you feel attacked, I spoke of homosexuality as perversion of the original purpose and intention sex - why does that offend? What if it helps you let go of something that is contributing to the problem?

 

No worries.